Author	Thread: about to give up
Admin	about to give up Posted : 19 Nov, 2016 06:11 PM i have been on here for a long time now. i have had no luck in finding someone. most ignore my messages,the others reject me cause of my disability and/or i don't have much money. i don't get out much,and there's nowhere to meet women. also most are married or have boyfriends,and if there is a single woman.she's has children from a previous relationship. i have thought of either 1. give up all together and live among nuns.(they can't marry so they should be good for friendship) 2. have an arranged marriage(less chance for rejection if the couple only gets to know each other at the wedding)3. marry a female friend(if you have a lady friend that you get along well with and you both decide to just get married)4. get a mail order bride(there are many women in other nations looking for love and companionship and are not as picky as women here). well those are the options and i would like some advice on what to do. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 5 Dec, 2016 07:38 PM there's not many mormons here in kentucky. also i have a disability and i don't have a car. also i don't think i'll fit in,and too much competition. i have considered joining the mennonite church that's in the area. they don't judge on every little thing and the women,although plain their only requirements are a strong faith in god,and be a good person at heart. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 6 Dec, 2016 09:51 PM You are making your lack of confidence and motivation a much bigger problem than your disability. If you are interested in joining the Mennonite church then you do not need our approval. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 6 Dec, 2016 11:00 PM the reason why i lack confidence and determination is that,i have tried so hard,and no one is given me a chance. and i have become somewhat sad and bitter. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 7 Dec, 2016 11:58 AM I can't say what is the best way to deal with rejection but I think you know that becoming bitter and losing determination is one of the worst ways to deal with it. It's only going to affect you negatively and increase your chances of rejection even more. Everyone faces rejection and it should be expected. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 15 Dec, 2016 09:31 PM well my confidence has decreased more. i met a lady online,who seem a good match,she likes history and civil war reenactments. but she rejected me cause i currently having trouble getting steady work,and i wasn't a strong christian. i just changed my profile to where i will only accept women that are mennonite,amish,quaker,or any other plain devout christian sect. or that any women that is interested must convert and be willing to get married after a short courtship. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 15 Dec, 2016 10:07 PM Well as I said, becoming bitter is only going to make things worse. Start EXPECTING rejection especially in online dating. If you keep getting your hopes up for every little chat you hit off then you are only making yourself emotionally fragile. Do you think every other guy here is having tons of success ? Trust me, they aren't. Oh and what you said "any women that is interested must convert and be willing to get married after a short courtship" probably won't sit well with many women. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 18 Dec, 2016 12:42 PM that's why i now only accept women from plain christian sects(amish,mennonite,quaker,flds,hutterite,for example)or women who will be willing to be a simple plain christian woman,in order to find true love and a loving husband. i have even thought about going to a church singles group,but i am skeptical about finding a woman around my age,or having to deal with things i may not be able to cope with. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 19 Dec, 2016 06:09 PM Yes, I do love Civil War reenacting and that era, but I think it's important that my guy has a steady job. I have a jobs at home So I can help make money for my future so I can be a help meet to my husband. Post Reply
View Profile History	about to give up Posted : 26 Dec, 2016 05:16 PM see that's what makes me upset. women these days expect a man with a least 6 figures in his bank account. i have lost all hope and faith. gonna give up on looking for love and find a nun who will give me companionship and don't have to worry about love anymore. Post Reply

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