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Admin	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 11 Jun, 2009 12:23 AM I'm writing this for the women on this site. I don't look at men's profiles so I don't know what's going on there, but I do see that women express frustration that men either don't view, or view but don't write or respond to their profiles. If you're expecting some major revelation about what will make the difference, you're not going to find it here, but I do think one very small but important revelation will: You need to smile! :yay: I see many profiles where the main (or only) picture of the woman is one where she is not smiling, not looking happy, and sometimes looking awkward. Just relax! There's no need to look or feel awkward for a picture. You can make yourself smile as easily as you can make yourself look like you've been locked up in jail. I'm exaggerating, yes, but you get the point. Let me end with this: A woman I know and respect told me that her mother taught her a very important lesson about her relationships with men: "Always let him remember you with a smile." As a man, I believe that's a great piece of advice. Men like to see a woman who is warm and real, and a genuine smile helps to convey that like nothing else. Remember, you only have one chance to make an impression, and part of that impression is visual. Some people have a fairytale idea that people should accept them based on their personality alone. All men and women, regardless of whether they admit it or not, are attracted, in part, by physical looks and the attitudes projected by those looks as much as they are attracted by the inward parts of a person. After all, what we portray outwardly says a lot about what's inside of you. Now, go take a few pictures of yourself, or have someone take them for you. Snap the shutter when you're either feeling really happy, or when you're . That's the one we want to see! I've noticed others making suggestions about grammar, etc. and I agree that those suggestions can be useful, but I'll write to a woman who has horrible grammar and a great smile, over a woman who could write for the Harvard Business Review but looks like like her cat has just died. Post Reply
Patsine View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 11:13 PM Thank you! A smile cost one nothing it heals a troubled heart and leaves a mark in one's life. Very truth Patsine Post Reply
View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 15 Oct, 2010 01:01 PM Fantastic post! And great smile! o",) Kindness, alike to smiling, is also contagious! p.s. Sometimes i smile for no reason lol. Is that weird? lol... : Post Reply
Miss_Chris View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 06:56 PM I agree about the smile.. I like to see men's profile pics of them smiling. I just created a new post that talks about profile pics and it seems really shallow what I wrote (I meant for it to be sort of funny). You have a better way with words... also, your eyes smile as well. Post Reply
mariavicenta View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 29 Jan, 2011 10:23 PM Great posts!! :purpleangel:...i agree..looks/.pics can attract someone..but God looks at the heart..... Post Reply
prayerduzwork View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 10 Jul, 2011 04:39 PM With guys, the smiles seem to be few and far in between and i don't want to find out later that he has only two teeth or maybe doesn't brush (gross!). I happen to be one of those women who looks at eyes and mouth before anything else. Side point there are a lot of scammers (people who are not their picture and can't form a sentence etc etc) on here which I dealt with by simply blocking those out of the country. So ladies, sometimes it's a protection that you are not getting a lot of emails. It sure saves you the trouble of getting someone who isn't right for you in the first place. When a guy is talking to another guy he can open with "how about those broncos, raiders, (insert team here), etc" but with women he has to get a little creative to get her attention and keep it which might be a little difficult for some. I know there are many scenarios and we could be on here all day talking about them. Smiling is a great start like you said Six. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You're Frustrated By The Lack of Views/Emails You're Getting, This Will Help... Posted : 14 Nov, 2014 02:55 AM I hope u read this! I read ur profile and would like to talk with u but u have ur age limit to low!:( dawn Post Reply

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