Author	Thread: a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith
Admin	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 17 Jul, 2014 02:10 PM This is to all my sisters here, i will suggest that we let the men contact us! After all it was to them that Gad asked to leave their father and mother and cliff to us the womenl. It is also written, He who finds a wife.... So it the mens' duty to look for us untill they find us and not the other way round! I used to contact them but when the realisation of these Scriptures hit me, i stoped. However, we can just brouse around in order not to be inactive! Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 18 Jul, 2014 02:37 PM when u say there"s nothing wrong in the woman taking the initiative, u are equally saying that there is nothing wrong in the woman being the head of the family. The Same God that says a man is the head of the family is the same who says the man "should leave and find"! Brethen, its not bc the society terms something as normal that we will follow in th same trend! We (christians) are in this world but not of it! when we say Christ is Lord of our lives, what we are actually saying is this; that He has absolutel rule over us. A Lord is a dictator!!What ever He Says is a law! u cannot claim Jesus is Lord of ur live and then deliberatly go against His orders. if He is Lord over ur life, then let Him be Lord all the way! By the way, a believer is supose to be someone through whom Christ Jesus lives, acts and continues His present day mininstry here on earth (Galatians 2:20). Beloveth, lets not pay lip services to our Lord and Saviour. He deserves more than that! It caused Him His honor and live to save u and i! Its my prayer that He may recieve the just recompense of His sacrifce through our lives.To Him be glory and honor for ever and ever Amen Post Reply
flyby View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 18 Jul, 2014 09:54 PM Agreed Mabel, the hunts good! but its that first response that it is all so important! I enjoy a thought out response with a bit of humor instead of just a, hey. Guys, there�s info to be learned here. ;~) Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 18 Jul, 2014 10:43 PM That kind of attitude puts too much responsibility on male shoulders and tends to cause stupid mistakes and these days very ugly sexual harassment lawsuits. Also believe it or not sometimes men actually appreciate first attention, but only if it's rare. A woman that strongly approaches men a lot tends to unintentionally either send cheap or danger signals. I'm not saying the woman should take the lead. Sometimes men are just plain daft when it comes to woman remember, sometimes a man needs a proper kiss just to realize the woman actually wants him. That said though a kiss is never just a kiss so be careful what you unintentionally promise someone. Shortly put there is nuance and balance to everything, that alone makes the system genius IMO. Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 03:54 AM Shalom, Sons and Daughters of the Most High thank u all for the tremendous response to this topic. Pls do pardon me for my poor english. English is my 3rd language. so do not mind my spelling errors and wrong usage of words sometimes. Pls i would be gratefull if u take a little more time to point out ur views in detail. That way we learn from each other. it is often said" iron sharpens iron. how true that is!!i would like u to check out on what i truely believe about the person and work of our pracious Lord. Check that out on our church"s website www.gospelofchristministries.org . love u all ! u are blessed with all blessings. Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 03:55 AM Shalom, Sons and Daughters of the Most High thank u all for the tremendous response to this topic. Pls do pardon me for my poor english. English is my 3rd language. so do not mind my spelling errors and wrong usage of words sometimes. Pls i would be gratefull if u take a little more time to point out ur views in detail. That way we learn from each other. it is often said" iron sharpens iron. how true that is!!i would like u to check out on what i truely believe about the person and work of our pracious Lord. Check that out on our church"s website www.gospelofchristministries.org . love u all ! u are blessed with all blessings. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 01:11 PM You can either be pursued or pursue only to be miserable in that relationship. It boils down to gender calling! If both parties keep to their gender calling, I personally don't see anything wrong if a lady avails herself or even make that first effort. Countless times i'm warmed by elderly ladies in my church, not to even consider getting married especially if this means being married to a fellow christian guy. Surely they don't mean that I should try my luck outside. The bottom line here is That... They're very frustrated inasmuch as they were waiting to be approached. Relationships have no formula, just as there's nothing wrong with God's instructions. Human beings will always be a problem. Starting a relationship being a lady doesn't make it any less of being found if that is the main argument here. Can both keep to their gender calling? That's the main question we should be asking our selves Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 01:45 PM Speaking of 'gender calling' i'm bothered by Jesus wishing that the cup would be taken from Him if possible, But then again if it would have pleased the Father for Him to drink from the cup (going through crucifixion) He was then willing to go through it. His tears turned into to blood due to the pressure of submitting to this instruction. This in me communicates volumes about 'submission' Can you submit through tears while broken hearted? Where do you draw the line? Do you bring your conditions and your female rights forth? (I don't mean to justify or condone husbands abusing their calling. That's another topic altogether) I look at how Jesus demonstrated 'submission' even to the cross, with us ladies having to submit to our husbands as we learn from Him, is what emphasizes me to rather worry about gender calling rather than who came to who to initiate a relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 04:05 PM Rambo you are quite capable of "shoulder-ing" it! If a woman isnt interested try again. Dont expect a woman to do what the man is supposed to do; LEAD. Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 04:14 PM Sister yep! If men would just study Gods word on this they would realize that a woman loves and respects because the man has FIRST loved her to a point where she melts. God created us as nurturers and encouragers with/for the opposite sex. God created the man to hunt and keep hunting till she cant deny his love. Its exactly the same scenario as when the Holy Spirit draws his creation in until we finally submit. Jesus said love your wives as I love the church. Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, I think alot of men have bought into the "womens lib" thing and they have gotten lazy and apathetic. I for one am not a womens libber. I just want a strong verile man!!! Is that too much to ask for? :nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	a little suggestion to all my beloved sisters in the faith Posted : 20 Jul, 2014 07:38 AM In line to what sis, hindeninhimalways has stated, i will add that women do not really love, they respond to love! A wise man once said that Men SEE while women HEAR. this is the more reason why men are to approach the women. now to my sis sisygirl, first of all we are not called to follow christs example or to suffer the way He did!! Christ said in John 15:5 "without me u can do nothing!!! And then He says in philippian 4:13 that the believer can do ALL things through( united with) Christ who empowers him!!( i am paraphrasing). This therfore emplies that the believer is one through whom Christ now lives his life. God is not asking the believer to do what Christ did! He (God ) has done that before (under the old covenant) and found out that man was incapable, left all by himself to do whatsoever!!. Thats the more reason why He had to join Man to His only begoten Son( at His inarnation) so as to fulfill any reqirements from Him God on behalf of man and as man!!So when God commands husbands to love their wives, they the husbands are able bc Christ is actually the one Capable of loving through them by vertue of our union with Christ!!! So sis do not rely on what others say or do ; not even those from ur chuch!! Christians actually get frustrated bc the church of Jesus Christ has not yet caught the revelation of the mistery of the body of Christ. The Church is the body, the fles and bone of the Lord Jesus for crying out loud!! Christ the Head is not frustrated;; How can His body (the believers) which is joined to the head be frustrateded! sis, rest in the fact that u are who God says u are(one with his Son) irrespective of anyones opinion. stop seeing things from the natural perspective!! See urself as God sees in His Son!! The mistery of the gospel is that u are a brand new man in Christ Jesus. there is nothing, absolutely nothing this new man cannot do!! May the eyes of our understanding be really enlightened that we may see who we (chritians) really are in Christ!! Post Reply

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