Author	Thread: Couldn't there be anything good about them?
sisygirl View Profile History	Couldn't there be anything good about them? Posted : 24 Oct, 2013 02:13 AM Just wondering Why is there such a sense of doubtfulness with divorced fellows? I'm often told by my friends/work mates that i'm difficult, at the end i'm gonna end up with a divorced person for the sake of pressure with time frame (aging) If that would be the case, which only God knows. Isn't there anything good they might have taken with from their previous relationship, weither they were the cause of divorce or not? Why at all is there an energy of resistance with divorced guys (with both ladies and man?) I do keep in mind this could be a sensitive subject.... I'm asking as a well meant question dear ones, hoping for a healthy and helpful conversation. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Couldn't there be anything good about them? Posted : 28 Oct, 2013 09:56 AM Ladies thank you so much for every reply sent to me. I haven't considered yet settling with a divorced fellow, let alone being in a relationship altogether. Was just curious and seeking to understand why is there such resistance when coming to divorced fellows. To me it's mentioned as a 'no going area' as i'm aften asked till when do I intent to be single, if not carefull i'm gonna end up with a divorced person. That is why my initiating question is 'Isn't there anything good in them that could have been learned from their previous relationship?' Does the title 'divorced' make them less of good people? What if it took that experience for them to become the finished product that we all see today? What if they were victims in that relationship? What if they were the cause of divorce only to learn and be better people from that experience? Don't they deserve a second chance like everyone else who did wrong previously? (keeping in mind of more responsibilities and challenges from the former relationship) What caused me to be single today from 2004 when meeting potential mates daily? Should I be seen less guilty cause I was never married, it was easy to pull out? Till when will I be running from commitment? What if i've missed my season along the years? What if I really have a problem as much as I think there's nothing wrong with me? How will I have this baby that I desire so much to have, (to a point of being worried if i'll have 'fentom pregnancy') without having a partner? The list is endless from both parties I suppose Thank you ladies!! Post Reply

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