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Cautious
Posted : 30 Jun, 2012 11:40 AM

It is good to be Cautious when meeting people off a date site for a Relationship, however, if you are too paranoid, why be on any datesite. Many people are not scammers, or dishonest or Strange. Often times you have one bad expereince and then throw everyone else you meet into that same basket, so to speak. Give each individual meet a chance to proved himself.



I say this because a man had an interest in me and said some women he met were scammers and he just wanted to test some things out . :rolleyes:

If you come at a New person with your Old experiences it probably will be a Turn off to the New person.



IMO

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2012 09:04 AM

godsgirl23





Victorious, that wasn't really very funny, and it was rather offensive.







However, if you chose to shout that at an airport, I'm taking great comfort in the fact that security would be all over you for shouting "bomb."







So it would all be fair.



+++godgirl23

please help me out here ok, tell me why i was so offensive? this way, i don't offend anybody else, ok. thanks

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2012 02:35 PM

shamah

I am Genuine and I do not have to prove myself to him.

I've moved on, I have others who I am communicating with.

What I do not do is fall inlove with men over the interenet without meeting them in Person.

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2012 09:15 PM

Exceeding

That guy is not God to know whether you are a scammer or not at first. Secondly, he is human and what i mean is that; If he was disappointed a few times before, there is no way he would trust you before getting to know you in person(Proving that you are not a scammer...) I guess he was just making his fears clear...some people have really been 'disappointed' on here more that we can ever know!

Internet dating sometimes is really annoying because everybody says that they are genuine(no offense sis) and it is more like "Try and error" for some people!

So proving your self genuine is just to let him know and see that you are not one of the scammers.I mean it doesn't hurt to do that,does it?

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 02:23 PM

shamah

Again...I have moved on. lol



I have no problem moving on. Love comes when you trust and meet in person and spend time together.

Too many women for in love online, which is really funny.:laugh:

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 04:27 PM

Noted sis!



I was just saying anyways:)

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Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 06:48 AM

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2012 12:58 PM

I was occupying the time of a scammer the other day to distract them from some helpless individual who is desperite.



You know doing my duty. hahaha. Some times I lead them to Jesus through questions but some times I just have some fun with them. I never report them because they have new profiles ready to go so i would rather just occupy them.



Besides it fun. This suposed woman showed exceeding interest in me. Tried to get me to chat in yahoo any way she could. I was very poilte with answers like I am happy here with you and such.



They got real pushy about my giving information and I said your cute when your pushy. They finally gave up and we went our seperate ways.



If we are wise we dont need to get all frustrated and angry. They are harmless if we set some ground rules for our interactions and just have fun.

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