Author	Thread: Marital Sex and Emails
NRSV1953 View Profile History	Marital Sex and Emails Posted : 23 Feb, 2012 12:02 PM After corresponding with a new friend for a few days here on CDFF, he brought up the subject of marital sex. I had not been aware that we were having any romantic discussions, so I was very surprised that he would even mention the subject! Am I being overly sensitive? I said nothing to lead this man on and would never bring up the subject of sex, marital or otherwise, in an email. Any input from others would be greatly appreciated! Blessings! Post Reply
trina36 View Profile History	Marital Sex and Emails Posted : 22 Mar, 2012 03:08 AM Marital Sex and Emails I had not read this article yet. I thought I read all of them. Interesting story. I would need to know someone very well and be very interested in him for that discussion. Not for casual conversation. Post Reply
View Profile History	Marital Sex and Emails Posted : 1 Jun, 2012 11:02 AM hi.... i think ur getting used to life online!!!! I do agree with u on the point that discussing sex should b kept for later.... However, it is sad that a lot of men these days abuse online dating in a sexual way. having said that.... i think when u get to know someone... there ia point where chemistry works! at this point it is getting closer to a commitment... it is fine to indulge in romantic conversation.... and discuss sex. as sex is an important aspect in married life! Just imagine if he was impotent!!!! hahaha that is my take Sudhir Post Reply
View Profile History	Marital Sex and Emails Posted : 1 Jul, 2012 06:07 AM I was on Eharmony and allowed a impersonal machine choose for me. This was because I didnt know how to choose for my self. Once I learned through dating what I liked in a woman and learned how to communicate with a woman I didnt need Eharmony any more. With that said, Gods Word talks about sex. What not to do and what to do in marriage. I love how simple Gods work makes things for us that we seem to complicate. First I beleive the discussion of sex is very personal and intimate and should not be taken lightly. It is reserved only for a relationship that is leading to marriage. Personally when the intimacy level in a relationship get to a certain point then the discussion is open for me to lead us in. But not in a crude and selfish manner but through biblical discussion of what God design is in a christian marriage. Such as the marriage bed is undefiled and lets not defile it. Questions like what would defile the marriage bed? The reality Paul writes about of us not being our own but our partners. Questions like How do we feel about giving such power over to our mate and how do you feel about having such power? What Paul writes about in not defrauding oneanother in marriage and what does this mean but to refrain for a given time by agreement to prayer that satin not tempt us. If we discuss these deep sort of things in a biblical manner then the discussion of intimacy through the physical expression can lead to a greater understanding of our own selfish nature and honesty of what things we struggle with together and alone. The discussion of intimacy should develop greater verbal intimacy through understanding and honesty. It shouldnt be about how I get my needs met but what is my responsibility before God to meet my partners and am I really ready to sacrifice in such a manner if needed? Am I willing and able to give of my time, emotion, energy then body in this physical oneness God has ordained in marriage and marriage alone? Post Reply

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