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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 1 Feb, 2012 10:29 PM

I have come across several men that are on this site and are still married!! Some claim that they are "separated" but are still married nonetheless.



That is so wrong!

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One_Sojourner

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 5 Feb, 2012 03:20 PM

for the record I have been divorced since june of '08.... :goofball:

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 5 Feb, 2012 03:39 PM

I don't see a problem with married/divorced/separated people on this site - after all, by our own admissions many of us are still only here for the forums and there's no sin in having membership on here to participate in them.



I may also agree that married and merely separated people shouldn't be looking for dates, but the divorced???

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Posted : 5 Feb, 2012 05:52 PM

I think there's a HUGE difference between being here strictly for the forums, and being here in hopes of getting a date. During the two and a half years I've been on here, there have been several couples who met on CDFF and hung around for the forums. They made it clear on their profiles that they were not available, posted picture of them together, etc., and no one had a problem with it. Then there are the people who are "separated" and on CDFF trying to find someone to date...while they are still married. THAT'S what I have a problem with.



I'm grateful that we have these forums to talk to other Christians, get ideas and advice, and give advice.

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 6 Feb, 2012 04:44 AM

seriously? married peole need a dating site to get advise and comfort?

Maybe that night they came home late, smelling like someone else's cologne, they were just getting hands on counceling? lol.

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 6 Feb, 2012 04:25 PM

Not everyone here is here for dating, and judging from how few people meet anyone here I'd say that facet is pretty much secondary for most of us.

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 7 Feb, 2012 02:19 AM

@ James



LOL

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 21 Feb, 2012 10:51 PM

I know, it is very very wrong.

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 23 Feb, 2012 04:48 AM

"but hopefully these men and women have joined the site with honorable intentions... brotherly advice, fellowship... the forums and discussions are helpful. Whether here, the market or at your kid's ball game, can God use anyone of us to be a blessing in a hurting person's life? "



Yes but there are many Christian forums for that type of thing. One has to wonder why these men sign up for a Dating forum brotherly fellowship and help is what they are seeking.

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 23 Feb, 2012 04:59 PM

Thank You!!!

Probably for the same reason that there are women on here who are married, and claim to be "separated."

Separated is married, right? Right!

I got an email today from a lady who was separated. I updated my essay and wrote " Looking for a woman who is not married, or separated." As we know, unfortunately there are CINO's everywhere, (Christian In Name Only) even in the church. Thanks for taking a stand. GOD Bless you!!!

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Why are married men on this site?
Posted : 19 Aug, 2012 12:42 AM

Hi... people will be people and there is no shortage of people living outside of God's Will.. it is much easier to live up to a standard within ourselves than it ever will be to expect/demand it of others... I mean if God allows for free will shouldnt we?... if we are strong and we pray for the weak it would not matter who ventures in... blessings

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