Author	Thread: Things not going well with BF
Admin	Things not going well with BF Posted : 13 Aug, 2011 09:17 PM Hi Everyone, Well, I've written here before so hopefully I can get some wisdom from my brothers and sisters. Met a guy in Jan. He came to FL where I was staying with my parents. We(him/I) are from PA. We went to Clearwater/St. Augustine and had a GREAT time. I was almost SURE he was the one for me. When I got home in March, everything continued well. We both prayed for God's will in all of this, BUT we both knew we wanted to marry. We parted ways in May b/c he had to resolve issues with x.(boy did he resolve them!)I took him back with caution saying we should just date on weekends. I believe him when he says he believes what the Bible says about premarital sex. HOWEVER, what he believes is different from what has happened btwn us. I'm guilty too. We did 'everything but' the actual act. I believe this was our downfall. It started going good again and looked forward to a future with him. Saw his pastor twice/once separately. He ALLUDED to the fact that my BF hasn't been completely honest to the church about his x and their issues. Here I am again, faced with a decision to end it b/c he contacted a woman in my BS who he met twice. I KNOW for a fact that he's NOT into her at all. Believe me, she's not exactly attractive(not to be mean)in any way. I don't understand why he even did that in the first place. I'm thinking it fed his ego. He told me about it before my BS friend did, so I'll give him that. I need some advice here. We have another appt with his pastor and MY therapist. He has SO many good qualities that a man of God would have. Is this relationship worth saving?? Post Reply
View Profile History	Things not going well with BF Posted : 7 Mar, 2013 05:32 PM I have to say here that if it has started out an you been fooled an a man with bagage an problems he dont work out an fresh from another relation an to play the flesh game careful thats not love ether. You need to not play this hand . You need an man of Yah . I other lady you say he went out with [not attractive] you are just trying convence yourself that dont make no difference at all . He is not of the Father an needs grow more in him an live under true conviction an you to . You will be hurt an only hurt yourself as you have . There is no game with the Father an you can get all the countsel you want a man of Yah will no deceive or hurt you or want you hurt yourself ether . This guy is a runner . You will know them by there fruits . You need to be serious with the Father an your love body not yours to give but His . Be careful an dont cut yourself short for what you need from the Father . I was engaged an the woman took off with my ring on an married another man within 3 days lied to me put on face book an sad story blew my mind but you see she never wanted to live for the Father [only herself] she played church like to dress up not wasent in her . she loved an wanted the flesh . Give yourself a true man ofter the Fathers heart . You dont want to look over your shoulder an wonder be hurt more down the road . Most guys like that wont admite to you there real problems to fix better fold this hand I know its hard but you will have better reward an peace that u need without that mess dear lady . Pray an live for Yah . Bob Post Reply
View Profile History	Things not going well with BF Posted : 9 Mar, 2013 03:19 PM AMEN SISTER GLAD HEAR IT . WE CAN MESS UP BUT WE HAVE TO LEARN FROM IT YOU WILL [KEEP FATHER FIRST] ITS SO SWEET HIS LOVE . YOU KNOW THAT THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE AN WILL DO THE FATHERS WILL AN LOVE YOU SO MUCH MORE. THEY WONT WANT YOUR BODY BUT YOUR SPIRIT AN NOT TO RUIN YOU OR YOUR SOUL AS WELL AS THERE OUN. THAT GUY WAS AFTER THE FLESH AN NOT MATURE AN YOU NEED A STRONG MAN AN NOT WORRY IF AN WHERE HE IS NOT NEED TO AN YOU WOULD HAVE WITH HIM THE FRUITS KNOW THEM BY . WE THINK WE CAN PLAY WITH SIN BUT WE CANT WILL RUIN US AN EVEN KILL US. AS A GUY CAN TELL YOU HE WASENT FOR YOU AN YOU NEED MATURE CONVICTED MAN LIVES BY FEAR OF THE FATHER AN NOT AFRAID BE HELD ACCOUNTIBLE BY THE FATHER AN GROWN IN THE SPIRIT . I BEEN THERE AN ITS NO GOOD YOU NEED BE EQUAL NOT UNEQUAL YOKED . GROW GET COLE TO HIM AN YOUR JOY AN A GOOD MAN WILL COME YOU WILL GO SLOW AN ENJOY TIME TO AN BE NATURAL WITH LOVE OF THE FATHER IN HIM FOR YOU . GLAD YOU KICKED GUY CURB YOU DONT NEED THE DRAM WILL KILL YOU. WATCH THE DEVIL LIKES SEND HIS COUNTER FIT ALWAYS MESS YOU UP . YAH BLESS ! SO HAPPY YOU SEEN IT . LOVE YOU SISTER AN PRAYING YOU BE OK AN FIND THAT GUY FATHER WANTS U FIND . THANKS BOB Post Reply

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