Author	Thread: Here we go again...wise counsel
Admin	Here we go again...wise counsel Posted : 31 May, 2011 03:13 PM Thanks to GodsGirl1965 I'm able to post without losing the text. Hi guys! My boyfriend and I(sounds weird considering we're both in our 40's lol) parted ways last month. I was kind of expecting it and agreed he should take some time to rethink things and be alone for a while, (we met late Dec, started talking ALOT over phone in Jan and Feb). He feels he betrayed God by breaking his marriage vows. However HE was very good to her(according to his family)He's an all around loyal and faithful Christian with a biblical worldview. The divorce is very amicable, so he wanted to see and give it one more try. SHE was NOT a Christian. He's been calling every so often and I'm fine with that. We had a lot of good discussions during the time we were dating and a lot in common. OUR breakup too was non-dramatic. No cheating, lying, etc--it's not like we don't like/love each other. He says that x contacted him recently and she wanted to come over to 'see him' hmmm. We all know what that means. He told her no. He tells me that all he was thinking about was me and that's when it clicked--he didn't have it for her anymore and that he wanted to give it one last shot. I'd like to do some casual dating now with other men and he knows that. Sometimes I need a change of scenery from the whole rat race and like to take a train into the city and walk around, explore, get some coffee. However, since he lives close to the city I thought about meeting up with him(and he me even before I decided to take the train). PLUS I got the Entertainment book when we were dating and most are valid for 2 people hahahaha! So he'd like to join me and I said I'll think about it. So with much thought, I decided we could meet. I told him I feel that I might be leading him on BUT he said PLEASE don't worry about that! SO was this a good or bad decision???? Help! Savvy Post Reply
View Profile History	Here we go again...wise counsel Posted : 9 Jun, 2011 12:23 AM Hey Two, What do you mean by tellling him to run? Shouldn't I be the one who's running?? LOL Post Reply
View Profile History	Here we go again...wise counsel Posted : 9 Jun, 2011 12:41 AM So..is he divorced? Is it final? Post Reply

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