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stick with one dating site, or have profiles on several?
Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 03:34 PM

What is your opinion of putting up profiles on multiple dating sites?

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 07:00 PM

I wouldn't lose to much sleep over it; you won't be single for long.

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 07:58 PM

I see nothing wrong in it..... unless of course your profile information differs greatly between the sites. If you have a "christian" profile for this site, and a different one for another, possibly non-christian site, it is deceitful.

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 08:13 PM

aw that was sweet; thank you :) I haven't dated in a while (5 years this December, but who's counting) - and , no, I don't count meeting for the first time for 10-minute coffee to check each other out as a date.

I've put up profiles on multiple sites before and it seems like the same people are on all the sites. So I was wondering if anyone has found an advantage to having multiple.

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Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 08:20 PM

I'm on two dating sites...this one, and a secular one. The information is a bit different on each of them. I'm on this site mostly for the forums (given the small number of men in my area on this site!), so the info is more general. On the other (larger) site, I include very specific details in what I'm looking for in a guy, and I'm very careful to point out that I'm a Christian and that I'm only interested in Christian guys. I also tell more about myself on that site since I don't post on the forums there, and people can't get to know me that way.



I've never dated anyone from this site, though I've made a good friend (and met him in person after a year of being online friends). I did date someone from the other site, but that relationship didn't work out and ended after 3 months.

I will say that there is a good bit of overlap between the sites. One guy that I'm talking to right now on the other site has a profile here, but he doesn't seem to log in here anymore. Same goes for a several other guys that I haven't talked to, but whose profiles I've seen on both sites...and that's just the guys within a couple hours drive of me!



Bottom line: it doesn't really matter, as long as both are an accurate picture of who you are, and as long as you can keep up with both of them. I was on three for a while...that was too many for me!

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:54 AM

I am on two dating sites and virtually copied and pasted my profile between the two LOL! I took out a couple things in the other one that I do have on this one simply because the other one is split into sections and more difficult to read if it is too long.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:00 PM

If you're shooting at a flock of birds, are you going to use a shotgun or a bb gun? Which one do you think is going to bring home more dinner?

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 06:01 PM

Umm... A bb gun? :ROFL:

It's all about the shotgun approach. I especially like shotgun weddings :winksmile:

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 06:20 PM

I have had a great number of responses on 'HotStuds.com' . . .or was that 'LoweredExpectations.com'. . . I forget I get them all confused.

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 07:58 PM

so is this site a shotgun or a bb gun? Or do I just load the shotgun with the bird pellets - ok ok. I do have a profile up on eharmony, but the one time I paid for 6 months and nothing came of it, and you really can't do much on it besides that. Got lots of cuckoos emailing me on plentyoffish. Suggestions? Free ones? Love aient supposed to cost a thing, right?



:) Two sparrows; I love seeing your comments. Seems like I smile every time I read something of yours.

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 09:29 PM

Just using this site is like using a BB gun. Putting a profile up on POF, OkCupid, and here? That's the shotgun approach. I also recommend seeing who your mother likes. Mine has apparently picked out quite a good one.

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