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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:04 AM

We've discussed this before here, but it's worth discussing again. Especially since we have some new people. (And my scores are a bit different than they were previously.)



Go here and take the test: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/personal-profiles/?profiletype=singles. And then report back because we're all curious. Well, I am anyway!



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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:06 AM

Um, WHY did it cut off the bottom 1/2 of my post?!



Love Language Scores:

8 Words of Affirmation

7 Quality Time

1 Receiving Gifts

3 Acts of Service

11 Physical Touch



Physical Touch:

A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm�they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.

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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 10:39 AM

Love Language Scores:

2 Words of Affirmation

12 Quality Time

1 Receiving Gifts

8 Acts of Service

7 Physical Touch





In Quality Time, nothing says "I love you" like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there�with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby�makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 10:46 AM

I've taken this quiz a couple times before, and Quality Time always comes out on top. The others vary, though, depending on where I am in my life. For example, the first time I took the test, I'd never been in a dating relationship, and Physical Touch had the lowest score. The next time I took it, I had been dating a guy for a couple months, and Physical Touch had moved up almost even with Quality Time. Now that I've been out of that relationship for over 5 months, Physical Touch has moved back down some, but is still higher than the others.



4 Words of Affirmation

12 Quality Time

2 Receiving Gifts

5 Acts of Service

7 Physical Touch



Quality Time



In Quality Time, nothing says �I love you� like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there�with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby�makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 11:25 AM

9 Words of Affirmation

10 Quality Time

2 Receiving Gifts

5 Acts of Service

4 Physical Touch



Yeah, that is about what I expected.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 11:30 AM

8 Words of Affirmation

7 Quality Time

5 Receiving Gifts

7 Acts of Service

3 Physical Touch



Words of Affirmation

Actions don�t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, �I love you,� are important�hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

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What's your love language?
Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 11:39 AM

Wow, you're really balanced, Kaynine.

It always surprises me that physical touch isn't at or near the top for guys.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 12:56 PM

Pixy, I have the book "The Five Love Languages" and it points out that for guys there is a difference between a non-sexual touch and sexual intercourse. Men tend to seperate the two. Basicallysexual intercourse comes from a physical drive, instead of an emotional need.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:14 PM

Cobbler, that's massively confusing because:

x Guys get aroused by touch.

x I thought guys do have an emotional need for intercourse.

x Then maybe a guy wouldn't be satisfied with just snuggling some nights.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:32 PM

4 Words of Affirmation

12 Quality Time

5 Receiving Gifts

6 Acts of Service

3 Physical Touch



Just what I had expected.

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Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:37 PM

Guys get aroused by anything that remotely hints at a request for sex. Touch is one of many. :winksmile:

Some men do find it very difficult to just snuggle for the evening without having sex first.



The Physical Touch referred to in the survey is a need for intimacy and not a need for gratification. A guy can easily have sex simply for physical gratification instead of intimacy. It is very difficult for women to separate the two.

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