Author	Thread: Missing her...
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 10:11 AM Okay guys and gals, I got a question for you. This girl that I'm interested in...well...I miss her. Is that weird? Or maybe I should say How weird is it?? I mean we have never "been together" as a couple but when I go days without seeing her I have that feeling of missing her. So is that strange or well, what is it?? Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 07:39 PM Not strange at all. In my opinion it means one of two things. 1) You are attracted to her and think about her because God put it on your heart 2) She has qualities, she has parts of her personality, she has mannerisms....... that attract you. And you will find those things in your future mate. They are what God has provided to you as clues for who you will be the most interested in in the future. Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 12:34 AM First, you need to meet her personally, dont just rely on good looks, sweetness... some people pretend they are really good, even posed seductively in a man's eyes. almost perfect, and you didn't know, she must be using her charm to make men fall in love with her. How well you know, that she is not really single?Some people hide their past with other men, and men who are weak in spirit are always tempted by the temptress! Or the other way, make friends first, but be sure you are talking to the right girl, some women are skillful in destroying other realtionships.That happened to me, I never knew... Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 10:08 AM I have known this young woman for roughly 9 years and pretty well know most of her past however there are a couple skips in time that I am not aware of...she has a very attractive personality and always lifts my spirits even when we just barely talk with one another or even just see each other and she smiles and waves...I can't help this feeling I have I just hope that it is God lead and that if it be His will for us to be together that no man or situation can get in the way. I am just curious as to what some of you thought on the concept of me missing someone when we are not or ever have been a couple. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 03:41 PM I think it's sweet and you should express yourself to her. Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 10:48 PM I agree with River: It's sweet and you should let her know! As a woman, it really means a lot to me when someone says they've missed me (and not from a romantic standpoint--in general). It shows that you care. And it's normal! Not strange @ all! Before the bf and I decided that we no longer wanted to keep things platonic, I would miss him b/w our conversations. I would find myself sitting here thinking about him and longing to talk to him and enjoy him. And I don't remember if I told him that. I tell him all the time now, but I was trying really hard to keep myself in check before we became romantic, because I practically never want to do anything that could be construed as a "first move." In your case, though, since you're a guy and you like her, I think it would be great to tell her... Maybe it'll help move things in the right direction =) Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 02:56 AM When you know her over 9 years, that's a very long time to just be frinds a woman, let's not always rely on our heart because the heart always change!Yes, its okay to miss her, because absence makes the heart grow fonder, when you are certain, why make second thoughts and wait for a long time?Get to know her, when you seldom communicate, its always, the getting to know stage is not enough. When you know what you want, you'll make the impossible possible. Go on, keep on missing her, ... Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 08:34 AM theres a new twist...she is thinking of getting back with her ex because he is getting baptized. I don't think it is legit because he's only been going to church for 4 weeks. I think he is doing it to try to get back with her and what kind of upsets me is that she has been saved for a little over two months and he decides to get baptized the same day that she is going to be baptized. anyway, I can't argue with her thinking that if he is in fact a changed person then she should excercise forgiveness and maybe give him a chance for the sake of their girl but I don't feel he is sincere and that just means more heart ache for her in the end...I did however send her some stuff at work last night. special delivery just for her...well there was something in there for her little girl. Still wondering what God has planned. I can truly see us together and I'm hoping that it is God's will but now with her thinking about getting back with him it adds to the complications because now how do I go about things without "prying" her away from him. I want her to leave him for her not for me...makes sense?? Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 02:22 PM Yes, it makes sense. I "stole" a guy away from his girlfriend once. There's still the occasional buzz around here that I'm this unscrupulous woman who loves to pry men away from others, because I get some kind of thrill from it or something. And while I do have an *interesting* track record with men, it's not true that I'm unscrupulous or that I get a thrill from stealing people. I didn't even officially date the man I "stole." We were never more than very close friends. Basically, his 16 year old girlfriend (the 2 of us were college-age at the time and still hanging out with the youth group at times) was jealous of my close friendship with this man and told him that he needed to choose her or me. He chose me =) And then he met someone else... a non-Christian girl. And he moved in with her. And because I was attracted to him, this stung. I cried quite a bit. The 2 of us stopped talking. And then I found out that his reserve unit was being activated and that he was being sent overseas. And I knew I would feel bad if he died without us having made amends. And so I emailed him. And we emailed back-and-forth for a couple years. And he said all kinds of things about how he didn't love his girlfriend and how he'd always loved me... and he promised that he would break up with her when he got back to the States. And he would even call me while he was overseas. Well, he did break up with the non-Christian girl, but then met someone else and married her, and they had their first baby a year or so ago. And it's a good thing, because, thinking about it now, we were wrong for each other in so many ways. If the 2 of us had gotten married, it would have been a complete disaster, I'm sure. Anyways, I digress. I think you should be her friend. But unless you're 100% sure that she's the one, I wouldn't put all of your eggs in one basket. Sometimes we miss out on opportunities right in front of us while we're longing for something that may never be. Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:26 PM I hear what you're saying Pixy but I hope you're wrong,haha!! I hope that its her that is missing what is right in front of her. aka-me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Missing her... Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:38 PM I hope so too =) Post Reply

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