Author	Thread: Never been in a relationship
Admin	Never been in a relationship Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 10:24 AM My whole life iv always had more girl friends than guy friends, but even though iv been around women more i have never had the confidence to ask one out. How should I approach a girl? Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 11:51 AM My advice on how to approach a girl is from the front, making sure to make eye contact. The best way (and the Ladies would be better suited to answer this), in my opinion is with Honesty and genuine sincerity. Just be yourself and since you already know them, you don't have to "break the ice". Just ask them if they'd like to...whatever -- dinner -- show -- sporting event etc. Be prepared for a no...it happens, but also be ready for a yes (with day -- time -- and so on). Another way is to have a party and see if the one you are interested in brings a Male friend. If she doesn't...then see how it goes at the party (does she seem "into you") and maybe even ask her then. And finally...the last step and one that I normally do not recommend...hypnotize her. "You will go out with me...you will go out with me...' Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 12:33 PM oh goodness...Arch your to silly. I have no advice except to be honest and up front with her. any good relationship begins as friends anyway, right? Riveroflife Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 01:26 PM I like to know what interests her and what we have in common. If I don't know her I just start asking her about the things I am interested in learning about her. Focus on her and her interests. People will talk to you if you talk about them. They will walk away if all you do is talk about yourself. If I find that we have something in common and she would "love to go/do", whatever it is, then I would suggest we go/do together or maybe with some friends. If she thinks that's a great idea or sounds like fun then make it a date. Just make sure she is comfortable with the plans you make. Thunder Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 07:52 PM Arch, you crack me up! :ROFL: Anyway, I think that your best bet would be to simply get to know a girl in a casual setting, then just ask her out. If you are nervous that's OK...I doubt that any girl worth having would think less of you because of it. Be straightforward and honest with her. Hopefully, she will respect you for it. I can't promise she'll say yes, but if she says no, perhaps she will be just as straightforward and honest with you too. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 10 Mar, 2010 08:56 AM Arch you and I think alike. I would do the what you said. But add a line afterwards, I will pay for the meal too, Dennis. :ROFL: maybe program her to drive also. Free date for me. Post Reply
PEM4 View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 10 Mar, 2010 01:10 PM Arch.. You gave me a good laugh.. wow! And Dgrimater you are funny... Jason, my dear, everyone gave you great advice that will help to get this operation off the ground.. (big encouraging smile) if there is one particular girl that you like, then most of job is done, whisper a prayer in your heart before ask her and be ready to accept and respect the answer you get... Chances are she might just be waiting for you to ask her out anyway.. If not there will be many asking out until you get to the right one.. FYI: A suggestion that I have seen a couple male friends used is at the end of an even, walk up to the girl where she is and just state your question, " Excuse me, but can I talk to you for a minute or I need your response on an important matter..." Work every time.. lol Blessings, go ask her.. Don't be shy.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 03:19 PM YES, getting her opinion on a situation exactly the way PEM said almost never fails when it comes to opening. Even if they do know it's a ploy they don't care, cuz it's fun and harmless. Also: What do you have to gain by not asking her? What do you have to lose if you do ask her? Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 02:41 PM The best of this line I used went like this: I keep hearing that if you're interested in a girl that you shouldn't compliment her directly. For example it would be ok to say 'That shirt looks nice on you', but it wouldn't be ok to say 'You have a nice smile', which btw you do. what do you think of that? And boom you're in. Unfortunatly if i knew what the chick i used this line on was like before hand i would've saved it for somebody else, but that's the risk you take. Typically though, it doesn't have to be that big of a production. The reason i like that one is because it compliments them indirectly. You've got some people that say it's best to give a backhanded compliment like 'you look good for your age' which is impossible to deliver correctly online and when done in real life is meant to be said to tease and humor, not bash her self-esteem or torment. It's perfectly just as well to say 'how do you like being a nurse?' Avoid statements like 'you seem like a cheerful person' or 'how are you.' it just comes off as too direct too soon so keep it light and not about her personally, make it about her job, hobbies, or opinion, and not about her nature, or personality when opening. Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 02:46 PM it's fun and game-like when you take things seriously that you both know really aren't that serious like if she's wearing a longhorns sweatshirt in a picture be like 'seriously, the longhorns?' Post Reply
View Profile History	Never been in a relationship Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 02:48 PM oh yeah and then one of these things after: :goofball: Post Reply

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