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Where are all the Eph 5:28 men?
Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 10:20 PM

Eph 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.



I'm bored with my last post it's reaking in waaaayyyyy too much legalism. I can smell the stench from here.



Are there any real men out there? An Eph 5:28 man is who I'm searching for that's the kind of man I will follow his lead because he's submitting to me and Im submitting to him. We're both submitting and loving each other.





Men who lead by setting the example of loving their wives like Christ loved the Church won't have to demand, beg and plead for a woman to submit to them.



The ladies will jump at the opportunity to submit to a man of this obedience to the bible.



Gbu

Kimberly:-)

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 10:29 PM

dear lady t, id do my very best as the head of the household... i recon were all human so it might not be perfect all the time.. but im a firm believer in doin ones best all the time.. but there will prolly be mistakes at times..

its how we deal with it that makes it click or not.

and sometimes ones best is not good enuff for another.. it does happen..

ole cattle

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 07:57 AM

"...I'm bored with my last post it's reaking in waaaayyyyy too much legalism. I can smell the stench from here."



That's what a "real" man wants to here from his bride. How can any man resist a woman like that! Ohhh!...I'm swooning! :laugh:



Kimberly...I've read your posts long enough to get a fairly good idea of just what your personality is like. I have a real difficult time seeing you "submit' to anyone.

Hey...I think I can smell that stench myself...hoo eee -- real stinker.



Oh Ephesian!...Oh Ephesian?

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 09:23 AM

Grace is not an exuse to sin.Otherwise, we are not to abuse gods mercy.Nothing in that other post was legalism.There are good and not so good things that god expects us too do.Many chritians were thrown to the lions to be eaten.Kimberly, if you con not take a little abuse then what will happen when you have to give your life.A christian woman who marries a christian man does not have to worry about abuse so why would you say those things.

Your attitude of men is not very high.Why is this? Nobody on this site has behaved in a poor manner towards you. Disagree right only.You think men have to abide by a standard that is to high.

But your standards for you are not that high.They are much lower.



I once read in a magizene of a woman and how she meant christ.

She was sent into the church to spy by NOW, a womans rights group.She was to spread liberal ideas in the church. Instead she got saved and met Jesus.The liberals know the word too.They twist the truth.Ladythumper are you saved?Are you a liberal spy?

Your statements have made me wonder.I am just being honest here.

Have you noticed many of those who once tried to talk to you and tell you how misguided you are no longer comment or come to the chat forums anymore.This should concern you.

I am saved by the grace of god.

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 02:38 PM

MY GOODNESS, ARE WE HAVING A RENEWAL OF THE SPAINISH INQUISITION: ARE THERE ANY LIBERAL SPYS, REDNECKS, MALE CHAUVINISTS, BASHERS OF ANY KIND HERE, PULEEEEEEEEEEZE STEP UP SO WE CAN CUT OFF YOUR HEADS WITH A DULL SWORD AND WILL WE SING VICTORY IN JESUS, IT IS SOOOOOOO EASY TO MAKE ACUSSATIONS, AND BRING A TUDE TO THE BOARDS....... LET US ALL......BEATITUDE,,,,,,,LET US AT LEAST TREAT THE WOMEN HERE VERBALLY AS JESUS TREATED THE WOMEN AT THE WELL AND THE WOMAN TAKEN IN ADULTERY THAT WAS CAST AT HIS FEET! THERE IS HOPE FOR US ALL, YE WHICH ARE SPIRITUAL RESTORE SUCH A ONE IN MEEKNESS LEST YE ALSO BE TEMPTED, AN OLE ALASKAN GRIZZLY BEAR SAID THAT

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 03:16 PM

dear folks, folks dont ya recon we ought to be a lil nicer to our brothers and sisters here? i mean we can all disagree and yet still be nice and courteous to each other.



i understand that different religious views can bring out very passionate responses at times .. i imagine we all can become quite passionate about what we believe at times.. and may step over the line a little bit when it comes to lovin our neighbor as ourselves.. and our beliefs..



the main thing is we need to see that thats not becoming to ourselves or our christian testimony..



we should always speak up when we think someone is teaching what we believe is wrong.. the bible tells us to do so.. but we are to told to teach back in a way that possibly the one percieved to be teachin wrong may can learn from it..and have a change of heart..

if we try to teach in a manner that puts someone else on the defencive .. their minds will never let anything in we teach.. they will shut you out and never take in the importance of your teachings.. therefore it will never sink in..



teach your beliefs and dont make things personal.. thats for the betterment of the ones teaching and those we re tryin to teach.. and for the forums as a whole as well.

thanks for everyones cooperation

ole cattle

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 04:46 PM

I 've reread my response looking for anything that was out of line or mean spirited. I don't think I came across as any of that. It is clear from my previous responses to Kimberley's threads and posts that I consider her a well meaning Christian woman but still one that is "somewhat" bull headed and strong willed and I have let her know just what my feelings are.

If I have Crossed any line, please don't Murder me with your anger but it reminds me of a line from Shakespere

"MeThinks she protests too much!".



I an bored! I am Woman...hear me roar!

Hey...was Yogi a Grizzly Bear?



A Boo Hoo to you too...Boo Booo!

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 06:10 PM

I am not angry at anyone, If I touched some nerves, well, maybe they needed touching, Did anyone read the passages I mentioned ???? Jesus was very tender with women and men, he used some of his harshest words towards the religious establishment, you know , the guys who dragged the women taken in adultery over and threw her at Jesus feet, they were carrying clubs and Stones.

Jesus said let the one who had no sin to cast the first stone!

Well meaning words can still be as hurtful as clubs and stones!

I saw a sign in a Christian Book store that read: LORD PLEASE LET MY CHOICE OF WORDS BE TENDER, CAUSE SOMEDAY , I MAY HAVE TO EAT THEM.

OLE GRIZZLY BEAR NOT MAD AT ANY ONE, JUST CHALLENGING EVERYONE TO ENGAGE BRAIN , BEFORE OPENING MOUTH! SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO SAY NOTHING AT ALL, JUST PRAY!

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 06:21 PM

You know Honey



that brings up a question:



When Jesus knocked over the money changers tables...was He Angry? Was Jesus Angry? Or was it a "righteous" anger and then a anger that was Justified. Now does that mean that there is a "justified" Murder?

If there is a justified anger and being angry with someone is murdering them...then that means that there is a "Justified Murder" of someone.!!



Am I wrong? Would some scholar correct me if I am wrong.



"can't get enough of them Sugar Crisp...Sugar Crisp...Sugar Crisp!".

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 06:29 PM

I WASN'T SINGILING OUT YOU ARCHIMEDES , BUT SOMEONE HERE WAS SUBTLY ACCUSING THUMPER OF BEING A SPY FROM SOMEWHERE AND HELD HER CONVERSION IN QUESTION????? THINK SOMEBODY IS STILL MISSING THE POINT.......GO AND SEE HOW JESUS TALKED TO WOMEN WHO WERE THE SOCIAL OUTCASTS OF HIS DAY, NO NAME CALLING AND HE HELPED THEM DRAW THEIR OWN CONCLUSIONS BY ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS? WE DON'T NEED TO USE THE LOG AND SPLINTER ROUTINE, HOLD STILL WHILE I CLUB YOU WITH THE LOG IN MY EYE, SO I CAN KNOCK THE SPLINTER OUT OF YOUR EYE!

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2010 09:27 PM

Don't feel just cuz Im a girl you have to stand up for me. I've mentioned before on previous post and will mention on this one I can stand up for myself cuz I have Jesus.



I write off people like that. Don't even comment back to them.



I'm on here to state how I believe and not going to sugar coat things to ur narrow minded legslist views.



This is a forum and intend to keep sharing my views. I love to shake stuff up to see what people are made of.



If u dont like it go to another forum cuz Im going to be here for awhile.



Saddens me that only one Ephesians man agreed that he is.



I've came to the conclusion that the majority of the men on this forum are one sided and are on here looking for a Christian woman they can dominate not love and cherish. The men here are one sided and think the woman is only suppose to submit to them but they don't have to submit to their women.



I guess it makes since a man who wants a slave as a wife is going to prey on Christian women cuz he knows most of them will keep forgiving him and putting up with his sorry butt.



I won't tolerate weak neanderthol men such as that.



I will settle for no less than a man who submits to me as much as I submit to him.



Gbu

Kimberly:-)

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