Author	Thread: Should I pursue this
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 30 Sep, 2024 07:36 PM I got to thinking recently about wanting to get married. It is a goal of mine, especially at my age. I told my mom recently that I won't meet anybody like it won't happen for me. She said that's not true, you might meet someone. She is even saving her wedding gown and I feel so stupid for not getting married by now. There is a guy I met on here today (he is not my type at all) but he is good-looking). He said I like you and want to pursue you. He then gave me his Facebook and said I am serious in pursuing you as a gf/wife. We haven't had a conversation on getting to know each other yet. Should I see this as a red flag or keep chatting? Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 30 Sep, 2024 08:47 PM Maybe you're bored and lowering your standards. There is always Handyman. And now there is this guy. Post Reply
Brandyccc View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 30 Sep, 2024 09:04 PM Proceed,,,with caution. Post Reply
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 1 Oct, 2024 09:40 AM I will proceed with caution but the first conversation yesterday he mentioned, "as a future gf/wife we will be exchanging messages on Facebook," "if you choose me, you will like me," "I like you," "I want to pursue you," etc. All things he said to me but we didn't once get to have an actual conversation yet. I told him it was off-putting and he said "simply being intentional, Christian women like that." Know nothing about him, plus he wants me to add him on Facebook! Am I weird or is he the weird one? Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 1 Oct, 2024 09:49 AM Some women put strangers off the Internet dating sites on their Facebook . I wouldn't. I've got Good experience with FB . I know good people and many of mine are Christian . I don' t friend strangers off any Dating site , especially Free sites. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 1 Oct, 2024 09:51 AM I 'm older and not seeking marriage online. So you may want to take advice from young women seeking Marriage. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 1 Oct, 2024 06:48 PM Did someone mention my name? I read through what my favorite hitting the wall CDFF member wrote and have to say I'm a little confused. I can't comment now but will be back later to craft another truthful but likely to be ignored bit of advice. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 1 Oct, 2024 08:08 PM Welcome back Handyman! I'm glad you are back from the dead. It appears you have been less active here. You must have had some better things to do. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 2 Oct, 2024 07:00 AM HazelEyesSparkle I'm curious to know how in just a short time you know he's not your type? I will admit that it's a possibility he's a scammer but to almost immediately say "he's good looking but not my type" is the type of mindset that will likely keep you single and unmarried. You and most other women need to STOP nitpicking every little thing that men say or do and start concentrating on being a feminine Godly version of a women. As far as your particular case, spend as much time as you can and really try and get to know this person. If he's a scammer you'll find out soon enough and if he's not you may find out he's a great guy and a good catch but that largely depends on whether your expectations of men are realistic. Post Reply
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 2 Oct, 2024 10:08 AM Thank you for the advice! But he kept saying "I like you" as the first message, then said "if you choose me, you won't be disappointed," "now as my gf/wife, we are going to talk on Facebook," etc. Wow! It was just too mucn then made a comment about how "Christian women like that kind of stuff." And he was completely disregarding every response I was giving Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Should I pursue this Posted : 2 Oct, 2024 01:24 PM Got to agree with Handyman there. But got to agree with HazelEyesSparkle as well. Sounds a little fishy in his word. It is just an exchange of words now. More correspondences do not last long. See if he is good in his word replies. Post Reply

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