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Jayzeee

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Posted : 10 Jun, 2020 06:21 AM

Can I suggest that when getting to know someone online you keep it light. I like to have a conversation not an interrogation. Questions about my children beyond how many/how old have my Spidey senses tingling...:-)

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Posted : 11 Jun, 2020 12:04 AM

When dating online you have to excercise your due diligence, a woman on another Christian dating site had posted a warning. After a man she was in contact with turned up at her church one Sunday. She was terrified and had to escorted home, by one of the church members. It turns out he'd managed to work out the church she went too, from information he'd garnered from her profile and their subsequent conversations "very scary"...

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Posted : 11 Jun, 2020 12:20 AM

I think it's very important not to look at everyone who contacts you as a potential partner. You have to be able to stand back and objectively assess the situation. Don't divulge personal details "ever" this person is a stranger whose intentions you don't yet know..:-)

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2020 02:42 AM

Don't play online ping pong for months on end. Statistics show that those who are successful in online dating. Meet in person within a month or two of making contact...:-)

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2020 05:15 AM

Msny of my past contacts online don't last long enough to get much information from them. Lol



Men I meet in person I talk on the phone Before meeting.



They guys I met in person traveled here and miles away so they had to make reservations for hotels .



I don't do hookups with Online guys.

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2020 06:03 AM

Meeting men in your town or area off online can be dangerous because they maybe become stalkers.

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2020 09:03 AM

Very good advice, Jayzeee.

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Posted : 13 Jun, 2020 04:54 AM

The lot of online communication naturally fizzles out, which is fine as you'd want to eliminate timewasters. I think it's important to have some phone communication before you meet. I know that I wouldn't meet someone without speaking to them first & getting a feel of who they are...:-)

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Posted : 13 Jun, 2020 05:09 AM

Thanks Countryivy I thought I'd share a few snippets...:-)

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Posted : 23 Jun, 2020 12:47 AM

Do your due diligence.

I was contacted by a man who lived in a residential home, for people with mental health issues.

He didn't volunteer that information, I found out through asking a serious of probing questions

BE CAREFUL...

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Posted : 23 Jun, 2020 12:49 AM

Not everyone on this site is mentally stable...

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