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Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 11 Dec, 2019 01:13 PM If I'm talking on the phone with a man, shouldn't I be able to call him whenever I like without telling him when I'm going to call ? If I called after 9 o'clock pm why is that a problem!! 😳 Getting to know a man fot a meeting up, conversation should be spontaneous, No? Post Reply
View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 11 Dec, 2019 06:43 PM If the person that you are communicating with has boundaries about when you can call, then you absolutely need to respect them. Post Reply
T0TH3M4X View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 11 Dec, 2019 08:08 PM Many guys, including me, will look elsewhere if they feel smothered. I know there are certain things I don't mind, but if I feel suffocated by a relationship, I'll get bored with it real quick. Post Reply
JamesEG View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 13 Dec, 2019 08:35 AM For emergency phone calls, I think anytime is typically acceptable. However, for routine phone calls, persons need to respect one another and phone at times that suit the other person best. The time a person normally sleeps is probably a bad time, and that time varies depending on the individual. Also, the time someone is working, cooking, eating, or devoted to some other specific thing may be a bad time, too. Fortunately, most persons now have answering machines and/or voice mail that can take a message if one is asleep, in the shower, eating, cooking, etc. A person can listen to the message and decide when to return the phone call. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 13 Dec, 2019 09:26 AM If I'm talking to someone I'm trying to get to know I'd prefer calls to be by arrangement initially. I have a life, family commitments etc... Evenings are family time for me so I wouldn't appreciate a 9.00pm call out of the blue. I would find it intrusive, and wouldn't appreciate this perso trying to monopolize my time. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 13 Dec, 2019 09:27 AM * this person * Post Reply

Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 13 Dec, 2019 11:54 AM If a man is serious about Meeting , he should be available most times to talk . We all have a life outside of Online. Well many do! Lol However, so are talking to several and not serious about a partnership. It's nit about smothering a man!! If he doesn't have available communication time then he's nit that serious about One woman. Online is just that until you communicate !! I see a few profiles that day , communication is the key to a good relationship. Very True! Because next time you call another woman may answer his phone. She's there just because she's there visiting! Post Reply
View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 13 Dec, 2019 03:48 PM It's not a good idea to become exclusive with someone too soon. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 14 Dec, 2019 08:55 AM I agree, I also don't think you can't force a connection with someone. It usually has the opposite effect & makes them run in the opposite direction... Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 14 Dec, 2019 01:47 PM Men on here , CDFF are the ones nit that serious but want a number right away. I've talked with Real men nit scammers they are in several sites surfing . One man got upset because I asked why are you on several dating sites! He said why not bla bla bla .....😀 Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Should communication be planned? Posted : 14 Dec, 2019 01:50 PM We all do things differently, I know that ! If you're trying to date in your hometown I can understand a woman wanting to take her time. Online miles away, no because you don't know a Stranger! Ask questions lots of them and call often. I've met men INPERSON and it works better that way. Post Reply