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Be sure the Man/Woman you seek is a Moral person
Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 11:59 AM

What a disappointment today, to find out the a man of my interest was not willing to wait for Sex. This is a Christian site and I feel that Christians should be willing to get to know one another as friends not Lovers. He was a long time Baptist member and claimed to be a Christian.



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Hello Joy

I do thank you highly for your replies. You are truly a remarkable lady. But I have to be honest with you in that I do not intend to remain celibate until marriage. I guess that leaves no hopes for us to cultivate a relationship. I do hope you find the one you are waiting for. And I am sure it will be well worth it when you do. May God Bless you!!!!



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Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 08:24 PM

Joy,

I understand how disappointing the message you received can be. I agree that it is sad how many people who profess they are Christians and aren't willing to uphold Christian values.

I pray God brings you through this time quickly and brings the right man into your life soon.

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Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 11:33 PM

Im sorry to hear about that, ExceedingJoy. Remember, a tree is known by its fruits. If he expects a carnal relationship before marriage, then he is the wrong "tree".



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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 02:44 PM

Thank you Teach and Apostelle for your comments. I guess I just got so upset , I had to Post this. It really was a personal message but sometimes we get disappointed by others Lifestyle when they suppose to be Christlike.

At least I didn't post his User name. Ladies be careful , guard you heart and Men as well.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 07:52 PM

Joy, it's a good reminder that all who say they are Christians may not be. Also, that Christians don't always follow God's rules. Discernment is a challenge because people get good at deception. I have to give him credit for being honest about it.

Keep your stance...God will bless you for it.



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Posted : 30 Jul, 2012 01:41 PM

Joy,

ChristianDatingForFree is one of a large multitude of dating sites owned by one company, some of which are abominations to our Creator. Their purpose is making money. This site is used by scammers and Christians alike. If you're looking for a better measure of safety, try a site that is well regulated. Stay safe my friend.



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Posted : 31 Jul, 2012 02:49 PM

Thank you for your comments. I have been on other Christian Paid sites, However, there has been a few bad experiences as well. I have learned a lot, So I say it is just a learning experience and we never too old to learn. lol



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Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 06:03 PM

While I disagree with his reasoning and beliefs, he was mature and articulated his wishes to you in a manner to give you closure for the failed "cultivated relationship." You can be bitter, you can be angry, you can be sad... you can even encourage women to "be sure to seek a moral person..."



I guess I'm seeing the glass half full on your scenario though. Once again, I disagree with his reasoning/beliefs, but I have to give him credit telling you. It is his right and prerogative to use his agency as he wishes... most men like that wouldn't have the honesty and courage to tell a woman that. You should be more thankful to him than bitter though... he saved you from wasting more time on him and showing you respect by giving you closure.



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Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 06:05 PM

By the way, I think it's rather childish and juvenile to post his message and to use his name. He has a different set of standards and beliefs, but why do that unless you asked him for permission to disclose such an intimate message?



You should be just as ashamed if not more so than Glenn...

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Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 09:53 PM

Joy looks like you are 100% same experience with me. I think they have two personality and absolutely no moral. Christian people, do not act like that, but we can never know the motivation that's person until now follow christian sites.

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Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 10:16 PM

There is no reason for her to be ashamed, Crayola. We must never shy away from exposing evil. If this man believes that fornication before marriage is ok, then he is mistaken. She did not give his CDFF name, only the name Glenn. No one can identify him.

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