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Posted : 4 Jul, 2012 08:25 PM

Some men just look at women's photos. I had a man contact me and he had his age settings for a woman 18-39 .

This man was in his 60's.



I could not have contacted him because I was too Old. So, I wrote him and said he may be married already if he changed his Settings to older gal. :laugh:



He never wrote me back.

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2012 08:45 PM

ok , how did you get in touch with him? do you have multiple profiles? lol



i agree with you though some people are unrealistic in their preferences!



but to each his own i guess

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2012 04:58 AM

God "hard wired" men to look for youth and health. Im not saying this is good or bad, just that this is the way things are. 18? That is strange. If he is in his 60's and looking for someone as young as 18, he is not looking for love or marriage. Looking for someone 10-15, even 20 years younger is one thing. 42+ years is something entirely different.

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2012 07:25 AM

the bible doesn't say anything on older guys wanting younger women!



but it does say don't be unequally yoked



i would like to find a woman who remembers when michael jackson was black



when crack was something on the sidewalk



when aids were people who helped teachers and nurses



when music was pg, and i don't mean "pretty gangster"



on netflix i started watching "the andy griffin show", some how i can't even think of opie telling andy

"if you hit me, i'll call children and family on you!"



boaz did ok with a younger woman!



king david had a younger one too



i guess it's ok if your the king or have a lot of riches, those people live under different rules! not



and don't get me started on guys who get women from overseas! lol



i even saw one ad for getting a wife from pakistan,lol, really!

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2012 09:39 AM

LOL ... 'hardwired'?

Is that like women are 'hardwired' to love chocolate and pretty shoes? :ROFL:



I have no doubt that there can be attraction between the decades and it may even work for a little while. But I've watched two sets of friends in 20+ year age difference marriages and as they age... the differences between them are becoming more and more obvious and painful. In both situations, the older one is more tired and starting to show signs of serious long-term, age-related ailments and the younger one is trying to hold everything together ... taking care of dieing parents, her husband needs her full attention and her children are leaving the nest and needing a new kind of support. And she is the sole income in the house, and trying to manage all the household duties.

This should be the peak of each of these ladies lives and their husbands are not able to 'be there' to celebrate life with them or help with the loss of her parents (and their chilren). It is not a mutual relationship. As victor says, not equally yoked.



For the long term relationship, marrying a much younger woman seems a tad selfish.

Unless, of course, you know you only have a year left to live and you sign over a very large life-insurance policy over to her!! :ROFL:

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2012 03:22 PM

victorious52

This man contacted me first. Once a man does that; no matter what his age settings are, I can Reply to his

message. I liked his Profile and he was handsome as well, unfortunately, I would not want a man who had his age setting that young for a woman.

He was a Profession Man and had no children. So, if any younger woman 18-39 wants him he maybe get lucky. :laugh:

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 05:19 AM

In some cultures the women only want older men. If a woman is mature enough to choose a older man and be satisfied in her role as a woman then she is blessed, is she not?

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 05:21 AM

Its our western thinking. Is it not? I am beginning to think the west needs to rethink many thing concerning life and fulfillment, do we not?

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 12:54 PM

trustandbelieve Yes, Hardwired. Do you not remember your basic biology class? When a man, old or young, sees a young, attractive, healthy woman, involuntary responses begin. There is a large chemical release in the brain. This stimulates several of the brains regions. Including the pleasure center. It actually "feels good" to view an attractive woman. Im not talking about lust. Im talking about the same feeling you receive when you win a game or obtain something enjoyable. Women have this too, but when you combine men's aggressive nature and testosterone, it can be like a mental explosion. Virtually every animal has this reaction. The difference is that people have free will. I am speaking in general terms. Not everyone reacts to the same degree.

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 01:18 PM

Yup, apostelle, pretty much the same as chocolate and pretty shoes!

:applause:

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Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 01:24 PM

lol not really. lol Have you ever driven off the road because you were looking at your shoes while driving? I did. But, I was only 21 at the time. lol

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