Author	Thread: Invisible
Admin	Invisible Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 11:31 AM I think I am invisible. There are tons of cute single christian guys at my church, there are guys on here, and no one ever asks me on a date. It is frustrating. The only responses I get on here, are guys from different countries. I'm not interested in that. Do you think maybe God is making me invisible to them? All my friends tell me to wait on God. The right one will come. One of the guys from my church told me, that he doesn't ask girls out. He waits on God. Im just confused and frustrated. Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 02:09 PM See...its been like six hours, and no one responded to my post. I am totally invisible. :goofball: Post Reply
bookwatcher View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 08:17 PM well, i know how you feel. I hardly get any hits and when i do they r from africa usually either due to scammres or they know to apreciate us woman who have a few extra lbs worth love'en. My best saying is patience because getting angry or antzy doesnt do anything but make you even more so. God will point me or said guy in the right direction one day until then its a waiting game where i try to better myself so i am an even better catch for the one i will love. Post Reply
critmusic View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 11:04 PM Please don't get discouraged ladies. Gods will for you will be done. Sometimes you just have to be patient. Its hard I know, when you want love so badly and all you end up with is an empty inbox. I've only been here for about a week. Messaged only 1 girl from my area and it hasn't been read yet. It was a message I sent a day after signing up. She seemed the most interesting to me so im gonna give her time to respond. Im not really in a hurry for anything anyways. Besides, you cant rush God. I think alot of people on here aren't very active either. So don't let it get you down. You're not invisible. Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 8 Jan, 2012 06:20 PM Listen to Critmusic. I know it's tough but have patience and your friend in the church is very, very wise to have learned that lesson. Never force your hand in God's plan for you, or you may not like the consequences. I tried to force my hand in God's plan for my life in my last relationship, and it turned into a long-distance engagement. We should have just stopped dating when we both moved from the area we were both living in. Instead, I tried to force her to be mine, and in the end, she cheated on me a month prior to me flying up to get her and bring her to me for the wedding. I was devastated for a few months to say the least, and since then I've been waiting on God's Word and His plan for what will have been now...26 months. Just one date, and it was so terrible, I left halfway through haha! But, He revealed to me something I didn't think was possible in the recent past, that I genuinely love my best friend- the who's been there for me since before my ex fiancee cheated on me. And now I'm just waiting on God's mercy to give me the green light and start dating her. Just stay faithful, and stay patient! :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 8 Jan, 2012 07:02 PM Maybe instead of focusing on who is available, look at what you really want in a significant other. If you examine that closely, then you may realise that some of the guys you consider unsuitable, you might want to at least say hi and have a chat. Further, this site, although the men are christian, reflects the ideals of the world, where men look at the gorgeous ladies first, that's just the reality of it. So for those of us who may not be a 10 on the beauty or body scale, we may just have to wait a bit longer for someone to realise our value. Such is life, but as said by some of the others we just have to learn to be patient, I'm learning that as well. Be blessed. Post Reply
WCATTIL View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 8 Jan, 2012 08:50 PM hello.. we are all visible in the eyes of God. God knows everything. He prepare perfectly made for us. Don't give up instead pray, wait with patience. . I believe the most and the sweetest, is loving a person who is the fruit of our prayer. Am still waiting lol.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 10 Jan, 2012 07:34 PM thanks. Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 02:57 PM hi, yes i feel exactly the same.There are nice guys in the church where i go, but the conversation is always surface talk and then bye.You cant help feeling frustrated when everyone else seems to be pairing off.It makes me feel abit better to know others are feeling the same.lol.This has to be my year! :party:wishing everyone else the best also. x Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 20 Jan, 2012 03:34 AM I love how women have no problem rejecting all guys all the time, then wonder why guys don't approach or ask them out. Post Reply
View Profile History	Invisible Posted : 20 Jan, 2012 05:23 AM To be fair, I've also had to reject a lot of women on here, though mostly due to distance (Philippines, Africa, Russia, etc.) even though they sounded worth a shot. The women who live within reasonable travelling distance just don't reply to me. Post Reply

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