Author	Thread: men post photos !
dgt9 View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 07:10 AM I have realized alot of men do not post photos or write much on their profile. Why is that? And then there are the ones that write alot and seem too into themselves. And you wonder why no-one responds. You can get more flies with Honey. Even if you do not want flies it is a start and you can weed them out later. MEN POST PHOTOS (and ones with out a hat and sunglasses) Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 09:11 AM I guess the reason I do it is because women seem really petty and picky and look for any excuse to not write back or at best they don't care what I like to do. So it's just the basic facts. Post Reply
dgt9 View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 11 Nov, 2011 06:33 AM I looked at your profile and if I was in you age range i wouldreply to you. You seem to have alot going for you and do not want petty, shallow people in your life with negative energy anyway. So, I think your profile was fine with alot of good pics. I wish you luck in your endeavors. Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 11 Nov, 2011 07:12 AM I feel that there are valid reasons for not posting a photo. However, this is a dating site. I put one photo and that is all I am willing to put on this site. I would expect to see at least one photo when doing a search. I would hope it shows the person's face. No sunglasses or hats would be great. Regarding text, I don't have a ton, just basic information. If someone looking at my profile wants to know the story of my life, how I became a Christian, how I got involved in the Army, what I am in school studying right now, or any other detail of my life, then said person must initiate contact. I find it annoying having to read everything about a person in a long profile. I don't need to know everything right away. This is a process. Think about it. If you had a first date, how much information do you gain from the other person? That is the amount of information on my profile. Post Reply
dgt9 View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 12 Nov, 2011 10:21 AM I also think any man would be inclined to look at your profile. It has just he right amount of info for initial contact and a good photo. Have you seen the men with no pic or a really bad one and a one liner (like they did not have the time to even make a profile) ? That is what I am referring to.Good luck to you in your endeavors. Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 13 Nov, 2011 09:37 AM Well, I finally got around to putting a more recent photo up (that doesn't include me wearing a hat or sunglasses) and my number of views has gone from 2-3/day to...wait for it... a big fat zero! Wonder if it'd increase if I wore a full-face helmet?! :rolleyes: Post Reply
dgt9 View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 13 Nov, 2011 12:51 PM Ride it out ,you are not bad looking- just a big guy. Perhaps you should keep the kids pics out of it for now.Just my advice. Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 15 Nov, 2011 12:50 AM Ive actually had women tell me that my profile was way too wordy! My current "about me" is the condensed version :) I suppose too much info right off the bat is quite a turn off for some women... :) Post Reply
dgt9 View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 15 Nov, 2011 08:11 AM yes and all the people that replied have good profiles. Good luck in your endeavors and let God bringit into your life if it should be there. Him first! Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 15 Nov, 2011 03:11 PM :ROFL: Welcome to computer dating! Post Reply
View Profile History	men post photos ! Posted : 11 Dec, 2011 08:47 PM lol:ROFL: Post Reply

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