Author	Thread: If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?....
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 03:07 PM I'm sure this question has been asked here before, but I'ma ask it again anyway............:glow: Um.... Is it okay if your man makes comments about other women on t.v.? On the street? For example.... 1st SCENARIO: Y'all are on the sofa watching t.v. and Angelina Jolie, Beyonce, J-Lo or somebody pops up on the t.v. and he makes mention of her looks, would that be okay with you? 2nd SCENARIO: Y'all are at the mall and some chick walks by and he makes mention of her looks, would that be okay with you? Now, I'll be honest and say, I've never had a relationship like that, but I know women with whom I've worked, who say that the first scenario is fine, but the second scenrio is a no-no. One lady told me either scenario was fine with her. Hmmm... Anyway... I'm sure I'll get mixed answers, and that's cool! Just keep it real, please Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 04:34 PM I used to always comment on Angelina Jolie's looks to my ex girlfriend. I used to say "Hey sweetie, she looks alot like you". A man has to be smart about these things! Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 04:46 PM Very smart, twosparrows. Avoid danger at all costs. Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 05:05 PM Two is wise, indeed! Did she really look like her? Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 06:29 PM Her Mom was English and German, Her Dad was Bolvian Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 07:00 PM I would be okay with the first scenario as long as the guy is okay with me making comments about Josh Duhamel or TJ Thyne or Josh Lucas. I think I would be okay with the second scenario only if they guy said I was "hotter" or more beautiful in comparison. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 09:14 PM I think people draw the line with normal people vs. celebrities because celebrities aren't considered real people. No one really believes that their significant other is going to hook up with Kate Hudson or Hugh Jackman. That waitress is real though. He could touch her. He could come back when you're at work, get her phone number, and cheat on you. Personally, I couldn't care less if my girlfriend tells me some guy on TV is hot. It probably wouldn't even matter if she said someone in real life was hot. It would get uncomfortable though if she developed an obsession or behaved flirty around them. For example, I know my friends are attractive. It's no surprise that she'll find my friend Ben to be a beautiful man. Just throw me a few more compliments than you're throwing him :goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 24 Apr, 2011 10:33 PM Glad 2 see u back Holyghostgirl! I'd start out by asking whom I was with...."why did you say what you've said?" Much like Jesus asking the Rich Young Ruler, why it was that he called Him good. In Christ's case, Christ knew that the Rich Young Ruler hadn't understand what he'd said = he hadn't said what he'd said to Christ by faith which was seen clearly in the Rich Young Ruler's actions as he walked away from his own Creator. So, like Christ whom I'm to be representing, I'd ask whom I was with why she'd made the remarks she'd made, and if the remark had come from Truth (Christ within her) or untruth (having come to know what's attractive apart from the Knowledge of God) = "who told you that you were naked?" = "who told you what to think of as attractive?" I totally love you guys ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 25 Apr, 2011 01:18 PM It depends on the guy. Some people just loves to give compliments. Maybe he gives them to me every other day, about various things, then on rare occasion if he comments on another girls looks, whether it be on TV or in person, that's fine, as long as it's rare, like I said, and as long as I have assurance that he's not comparing me to them. Sure everyone compares in their minds but grasping on to what should be a fleeting though enough to say something out loud, is not good. The scenario that would bother me the most (as far as relevance to your question) would be if he never compliments my looks but compliments my female friend behind my back about her looks. That's what would bother me. Or either of your scenarios would be kind of bad if he never complimented me on my looks. So I guess the bottom line is: is he just a person that dishes out compliments to everyone, all the time, or is it clear he thinks they're prettier than you (which they can be but don't say so out loud!) is what makes the difference. Post Reply
View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 25 Apr, 2011 01:59 PM Actually I think Angelina is ugly. So the girl might get a good laugh at my calling her a sleaze bag. I personally do not find very many women from Hollywood interesting to make positive comments about their looks. However, that being said I like Zhiva on NCIS who kicks butt. I like it when women beat up guys on TV. i find that so kool. So it is not their looks but what they do. Post Reply
Jewels133 View Profile History	If YOUR MAN looks at HER, then what?.... Posted : 25 Apr, 2011 02:31 PM I think it shows a lack of self esteem and self confidence if a woman really gets upset about a celebrity crush...they have TEAMS of people to make sure every flaw is covered...and every hair on their head is perfectly cut, dyed, styled, shiny and flawless. They have special lighting in commercials and on TV, and it's their JOB to exercise every day all day to stay "perfect". They spend hundreds and thousands of dollars on beauty treatments, waxes, manicures, fat sucking, skin tightening, butt lifting, face stretching procedures.... all to fit into the standard acceptable "beautiful" box...why would anyone be jealous of all that? Catch any major movie star without the magic lighting and the 12 layers of makeup, and they often look worse than the average woman. So, if guys want to point to a star and drool over them...let them. It's harmless. It's not like they will ever be able to do anything about it. Now, if a guy is checking out another girl right in front of you...thats just wrong...rude and uncalled for. But there is a often a double standard. If a woman were to check out another guy in front of her boyfriend...even for a second...he would be mad and jealous and throw a fit...but if a guy does it...we are expected to be ok with it and not get upset, because its just looking...not doing. That doesn't fly with me. When I'm with someone, I'm not looking at other people like that, and I don't appreciate it when a man does either. It's just rude. Post Reply

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