Author	Thread: Why is it that one woman was rude to me?
Admin	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 07:26 AM I couldnt make a title the right way. You see, there was someone who suddenly came around last December only to be gone. I knew her online years ago when she was 17 and I told her you are too young to be around guys like me. I dont want to go to jail. she kept bothering me a little bit so I blocked her and went on. years later, few weeks ago, she found me on here and she is 25 now. Finally she is adult I thought we can go on.. but then she dropped the shocker that she thinks she found another guy and she wanted to talk with me. Why would someone want to talk with me after all those years and she says she has someone else. I wish I can erase that history of my life that she didnt do that. Unless she really wanted me and drop that other guy. She admitted to me that she had a crush on me when she was 17 (now she is 25 and I am 46)..then next thing she said she thinks she found a guy. I dont like that at all. She matched to what I am looking for but this.. no. I dont like that. I admitted I liked her back then but I had to be firm no underaged! Hard to explain. Why would a woman do that to hurt me? Was it a revenge? To be honest, I do not like to dig up in past, and I do not like to keep friendships with ladies who says, "Well, I like you but can we just be friends?" That is more of a rejection. Why? The objective word, JUST. That is why. I do not want to waste time to be friends with the ladies I will not have a relationship. I do not have time for that. that is why. I want to focus on the one I will love and marry to. I also want to marry someone who can be the mother of our future children. That is another problem.. Why I get all the foreigners and out of age range (older than 40)? I wish the site has a block on foreigners and out of age range FOR them NOT to find my profile. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 09:48 AM cnybachelor, If you knew this girl when she was 17, and saw her when she was 25... that's eight years. Think of all the changes you make in eight years. Maybe she was just not in the same mindset as she was then. Crushes develop and sadly sometimes change. Unless she led you on, saying she would like to start a relationship with you again after all these years, or was trying to make you jealous, I think you'd have to see it from her point of view. People change, and a lot can happen in eight years. I'm sorry to see that you are upset, though, you know maybe she just doesn't know what she wants. If you go into 'Account Settings' there will be a little box you can check that says 'Block users outside of the United States'. God bless Rachel Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 04:36 PM So you like to tell the WORLD about this girl? that SHE broke YOUR heart???? WHAT ABOUT HER HEART? WHAT ABOUT HER HEART THAT YOU BROKE THAT DAY YOU... sigh... you know what? Wow, a TRUE gentleman wouldn't be posting about this publicly. how could you. this girl contacted you because she remembered you, and wanted to say hello, and... no. no. I can't... I can't believe you. how could you do this. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 05:00 PM Sigh... ok i'm calm. fine, I was that girl (to all reading this). and you know what, it hurts to know that you would publicly write about how rude i was when we only spoke a few days and you KNEW before i gave you my personal address to IM me that i was speaking to somebody, i just wanted to see how you were... that is all. Just know (if yo ucan write about me publicly behind my back i can surely say to you in "your face" not behind your back publicly this) I would never ever write about how much you hurt me without you knowing. I'm saying it to your face... you hurt me deeply. and about "blocking" me and saying that i should stop talking to you? Why not the truth YOU IMed me too, it wasn't just me, so stop making me sound like i was a stalker. YOU kept on IMing me too, it was a two way conversation back then, theres two sides to everystory. no matter how flat you try to make a pancake theres still two sides. You hurt me so badly right now, but i will go on with my life not angry at you no more. I forgive you for writing about me (though you didn't name names, i do not care, you wrote of somebody who trusted you (past tense) and that person knowing is all that matters). Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 07:44 PM Already done blocking her just moments ago. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 07:59 PM Hmmm. Lilo. I'll be praying for you, sister. Don't be sad. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 12 Apr, 2011 08:20 PM thanks marvel sis :) I have finished having a good cry, hehe... cos I truly TRULY wish for the best for Bachelor, i honestly do. I can understand if he is hurt, and Im NOT just saying this just to look like the good person, no... I really do. And bachelor, we have both hurt eachother, we can both admit that. But let us remember we are both children of the most high God, and siblings at that. I forgive you, now I ask you to forgive me if I have EVER hurt you... no scratch that, forgive me that I have hurt you, cos its obvious I have. If you do not, I respect that, If you do, I respect that same way. I wish you nothing but well wishes for your future, and I know you are still a sweet, fine, caring Man who would make your woman proud to have you as her man. May the Lord bless you and enrich you abundantly. And marvel, thanks mamas :) means so much... Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it that one woman was rude to me? Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 08:29 AM I am going to be very straight here. maybe a little hard. No adult should ever seek out an underage child. they are just a kid. even after many years the adult has no business seeking out that person. All dating guideline should stay in the bounds of the law. Underage people are always off limits. No excuses. If you did not know the person and they are over 19 it is no ones business. Post Reply