Author	Thread: Flirts with waitress
Miss_Chris View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 08:45 PM Would you date (long term relationship, marry) a guy who flirts with the waitress? Weather or not he realizes he's doing it. What do you think about this? Is it disrespectful to the waitress? If you are a waitress, what do you think when a man and women whom you are pretty sure are "together" (married , in a relationship, on a date) sit at your table and the man flirts with you? thanks. Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 08:52 PM Very likely not. I have been out with guys that have said to a waitress, "Thanks, hon!" or something along those lines. As he said it to every other lady in his life no matter who they were --- it did not bother me. But filrting -- I would not like that. Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 09:16 PM It would depend on the man. I have known guys who flirt as naturally as they breathe. They could no more stop flirting than they could give up oxygen. However, they can also flirt in such a way that everyone knows where their heart belongs. That I could handle. The guy who flirts and pursues ... just keep on going cause I am gone. Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 09:40 PM That is one of the biggest draw backs to being in a relationship, is giving up flirting. Now that I am 52 I love to flirt with women in their twenties because I know they don't take me serious, so it is safe and fun, unless they are really desperate or have really good taste in men. In which case I back peddle and run like crazy! Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 10:34 PM I have been a waitress before and it really made me feel uncomfortable when guys would flirt, especially when they had a date (spouses can date too) with them. Most of the time I would try to pay more attention to the lady than to the man so the woman would know that in no way was I enjoying it. Also, I think that helped her to know that I wouldn't disrespect her. Personally, I wouldn't want a guy to flirt with the waitress because I know how uncomfortable it can feel to be her. On the flip side, I've had a waiter flirt while I was with a date. I didn't like that either, but I'd rather the man handle it. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 8 Feb, 2011 12:15 AM No, I would not date or marry a guy that flirt with women in front of me , that just means he has no respect for his significant' s feelings . How would the guy like if his significant other did that in front of him? If he shows no respect and consideration when you're there with him. Just imagine all the things he does behind your back. Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 8 Feb, 2011 04:14 AM Faith Hope Love, SO TRUE, SO TRUE! :excited: Deborah Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 8 Feb, 2011 12:27 PM My dad was a huge flirt and he didnt mean anything by it...but he never asked for a womans number or made sexual inuendos or anything like that. I have been out with someone though and a woman walked by with a tight dress and the guy I was with almost broke his neck while checking her out. I just laughed. -you should bring it to his attention, maybe he doesnt realize he 's doing it. If it doesnt change, then you may ask yourself if it's worth you getting upset over. Usually it isnt...but you dont find that out until you get to know him better. blessings, River Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 8 Feb, 2011 01:48 PM No way, would I date anyone like that because I was already married to one of those types . However, he wasn't that type until we were married for a while. This is so disrespectful to the woman you are with or married to!! This is just my opinion. Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 9 Feb, 2011 08:36 PM Since we're talking about waitresses and eating at restaurants, I'm reminded of an old saying that is worth considering.......and I'm going to probably stir up the proverbial pot by bringing it to the front burner.... but in the interest of 'female psychology', I need to point out something to women who are saying �no way would I take that�....... It is not with insult... but it is the truth of females.... And it requires honest thought from within. The saying goes: "Nobody wants to eat at a restaurant where there are no parked cars in front of it......" The man who is flirting with the waitress in your presence is the very same man that you yourself responded to as a result of him flirting with YOU to begin with.......... Had he not flirted with YOU, you would have never been attracted to him in the first place. You would have considered him BORING, and therefore, not worthy of your time. Ergo.... if the man stops flirting with other women simply because he is now with you.... do you know what will actually happen in time? You will NOT find his elimination of flirting as anything worthy of being admired because of his virtue or character..... You will, in fact, start to become BORED with him. Because he no longer creates EXCITEMENT in your head or other areas of your anatomy, even if he is loving, faithful, and providing every whim you have ever had......... In order for your senses to be excited and your attraction to remain, your natural proclivity is to be drawn to the drama, and the potential of competition, thus triggering your need to be MORE desirable to the man than the woman your man is now flirting with. Of course you will HATE the fact that he is flirting with another woman.... but you will STILL be drawn to him, none the less. You can say NO about it... but if you look back at all your relationships and dating experiences.... you will have found that the man who stopped flirting with other women, is the man you became BORED with. Women are about 'competition' with each other. You can avoid it, and say �that's not true�, but it is nothing BUT the truth. I guarantee that every woman who said � I would drop him like a hot potato�, in fact, DIDN'T drop him immediately like a hot potato when he first did it. I would be more inclined to believe that two things either happened: You tried to either �kick it up a notch� and make yourself sexier to the man than the woman he flirted with...... or.... you tried to make yourself sexier to another man to get the man who flirted to notice you more. But you didn't just drop him right on the spot only to sit at home and be by yourself and just wait for the �man of non flirtatious character� to come along, sweep you off your feet, and then never flirt with another woman because you actually VALUED that.... no way...... Women do NOT value a non flirtatious man. Women find men like that BORING.... Post Reply
View Profile History	Flirts with waitress Posted : 9 Feb, 2011 08:36 PM Since we're talking about waitresses and eating at restaurants, I'm reminded of an old saying that is worth considering.......and I'm going to probably stir up the proverbial pot by bringing it to the front burner.... but in the interest of 'female psychology', I need to point out something to women who are saying �no way would I take that�....... It is not with insult... but it is the truth of females.... And it requires honest thought from within. The saying goes: "Nobody wants to eat at a restaurant where there are no parked cars in front of it......" The man who is flirting with the waitress in your presence is the very same man that you yourself responded to as a result of him flirting with YOU to begin with.......... Had he not flirted with YOU, you would have never been attracted to him in the first place. You would have considered him BORING, and therefore, not worthy of your time. Ergo.... if the man stops flirting with other women simply because he is now with you.... do you know what will actually happen in time? You will NOT find his elimination of flirting as anything worthy of being admired because of his virtue or character..... You will, in fact, start to become BORED with him. Because he no longer creates EXCITEMENT in your head or other areas of your anatomy, even if he is loving, faithful, and providing every whim you have ever had......... In order for your senses to be excited and your attraction to remain, your natural proclivity is to be drawn to the drama, and the potential of competition, thus triggering your need to be MORE desirable to the man than the woman your man is now flirting with. Of course you will HATE the fact that he is flirting with another woman.... but you will STILL be drawn to him, none the less. You can say NO about it... but if you look back at all your relationships and dating experiences.... you will have found that the man who stopped flirting with other women, is the man you became BORED with. Women are about 'competition' with each other. You can avoid it, and say �that's not true�, but it is nothing BUT the truth. I guarantee that every woman who said � I would drop him like a hot potato�, in fact, DIDN'T drop him immediately like a hot potato when he first did it. I would be more inclined to believe that two things either happened: You tried to either �kick it up a notch� and make yourself sexier to the man than the woman he flirted with...... or.... you tried to make yourself sexier to another man to get the man who flirted to notice you more. But you didn't just drop him right on the spot only to sit at home and be by yourself and just wait for the �man of non flirtatious character� to come along, sweep you off your feet, and then never flirt with another woman because you actually VALUED that.... no way...... Women do NOT value a non flirtatious man. Women find men like that BORING.... Post Reply

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