To the women of the world, my beloved sisters in Christ.
After years of listening to the conversations and observing your actions I have to ask
�why do you do the things that you do? Do you not realize how often you persist to sell yourself short? Why are you content with the life consistent of yourself made stress? �
Please I beg of you do not live your life�s in deceit. Do not conform to this world that is tainted with sin. Do not fool yourself with the devils� lies filtering thru your head. Do not submit to the pressures presented to you by your friends. If words are said to tear you down, guard your mind. You are a far more significant then you will ever know.
As the bible tells, after creating the stars and the heavens. The majesties of the earth and molding man into His image, and breathing live into him. God still looked down at his masterpiece and deemed it as something was missing.
It was made clear to God that it is not good for man to be alone. That man could not fulfill his God given purpose without a helper. When man and woman existed on earth God said to them, �be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and concur it. Rule over the animals in the air, land and sea�
He waited till woman was created to say this implies that man can not survive and remain supreme on earth without the help of woman. Woman was God�s last addition to His creation before He rested, providing the notion that the universe is incomplete and the world as we know it today would not have existed without the help of woman.
With such a marvelous world you have helped sustain, I can understand why women alike struggle with the idea of beauty. But hear me out! I assure you, You are beautiful. Truly beautiful.
Jack Nicolson couldn�t have said it better on As Good as it Gets, he says to Helen Hunt, �You make me want to be a better man.�
It is your beauty that motivates us as men. We are aware of the qualities you have, but we lack in long for. You are gentle, tender, inviting, devout and nurturing.
For those that are concern with how guys perceive them, believe me there�s nothing we find more attractive then a girl who is comfortable with their own beauty. With the power of your beauty, you brighten up our days. Even in the worsens of circumstances.
I find it silly that you have such contempt in doubt yourselves. Every time you view yourselves in the mirror, you feel as if you are not what you were meant to be.
And trust me I understand your hunger for a relationship. You are naturally inclined to want to be loved and to share the journey of life with someone else. Ever since you were born you created the attention of others to be captivating to everyone you met.
But honestly you don�t need new hair, new clothes, a new diet, or a completely different life style in order to acquire a focus. Please we desire you. The true you. We hate to see you hide behind your make up. Your laughter. Your insanely busy life�s. you present yourself as who you feel we want you to be. But you fail to relies all we want is you.
It pains me to see women to convince that they are not enough. That there must be something wrong with them. When it is certainly not true. You believe that is we took the time to get to know you, we would find a reason to run away. Untrue. You are persuade that you are unimportant and nearly another fish in the sea. But again Untrue.
Also when reflecting on your own stresses, do not place blame on men. We have our own problems. Our own needs for repentance. We too shall be reckoned with God. The true person to blame I insist is the devil.
Ever since woman�s creation, satin has been jealous of their unmatched beauty. You bring light to the world and draw people closer to a beauty that resembles that of God. Satin simply can not bare it. For this you are specifically attacked and hated, But Guard your heart and don�t believe anything that he tells you. The world could not afford to loose you to the enemy.
If you strive to keep yourself composed by surpassing pain, let me tell you it is not worth your effort. Just fall apart and let it out. Once you are done be sure to forgive those that have surpassed you and mock you and hurt you. Until you do so they will continue to hold power over you. For you will not fully heal, thusly you can not heal your emotionally wounds thru your own will.
The choice is up to you. You can choice to dwell on your own sorrow, or to retain happiness. You can also choice to be gullible or stubborn. But if you ever dismiss a complement I pray that my words for you do not go a miss.
For at the end of this letter to you, I leave neither I nor the world can ever deny. You are loved, special, wanted, long for, cared for, cherished, lovely, noticed, and above all else you are Beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It helps me as a writer to know if I am doing good or missing something. I would love to hear what others think. I am hoping it is something that helps. Sorry if it is a miss. Its been looked at a lot so I hope that's a good sign.
What you say is truly encouraging. I wish more people had the frame of mind that you do on this topic. Wouldn't the world be such a better place if people could see inner beauty first before making judgments based on the outside appearance?
But now days people look for that pretty face or nice body before even talking to you. I realize everyone is physically attracted to certain people and there is nothing wrong with that, but I have even written men off in the past if they didn't have the critiera I was looking for in a man. But then it took a really good friend to help me change my ways.
He wasn't a guy who I was physically attracted to, but the more I talked to him the more attracted I became...we are not together but, it did teach me that I can fall for someone who is not gorgeous, I just have to give him a chance and who knows he could just be my prince charming. lol
