Author	Thread: Concerning disability
Admin	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 06:36 PM Hi ladies and Happy New Years. Well this is my 3rd day here and finally able to post in forum ( smiles ). I am recently divorced and would like to make some female friends and hopefully one of those might lead into a serious relationship. However I notice many women on many dating site post that the man must have a job, no deadbeats. I understand that you all do not want a couch potatoe. However some people do have disabilitys such as my self. I don't consider myself a deadbeat, as I do draw disability check. When I was married you might of called me Mr. Mom lol as I took care of children when wife was gone. I also did as many household chores I could and took care of the outside. I also did 90% of cooking which the family loved my cooking. So how many of you knowing a man is honest up front about being disabled would give him a chance and see what he had to offer. Or would you just right him off right away knowing he did not make a lot of money or maybe just afraid he would be a deadbeat. Please be honest as I want to know if I have any chance of finding friendships or even love again. Thank you all so much. Love2cook63 :eat: Post Reply
shepherdess View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 07:04 PM Of Course you have a chance mr.love2cook!! At least as much as the rest of us!! Being misunderstood is the hardest thing about this medium. After all~ya gotta say SOMEthing on your profile, so as soon as you state preferences or whatever, something happens to throw them out the window! God can do anything. ANYthing. Thats why we are here ~ that and its free :yay: seriously, some times it seems it would be best to not say anything much in your profile about preferences, but we Need to ... I work w/ Seniors and People's w/ Disabilities, so my ideas are probably different than others from the get go. Join "us" in trusting God to find the right person for you and to make you (us) content being single until then :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 07:30 PM I would not hesitate to give a man a chance --- as long as other things seemed to be compatible. It takes time to know someone, and I will not disregard someone just because of a disability. Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 08:00 PM Yeap, find me a rich lawyer or doctor woman and I'd be Mr. Mom.... clean house, laundry, dishes, cook, shop, take the kids fishing, hiking, bike riding, horseback riding to the mountains and the beach, keep all the horses tuned up and take care of the biggest ranch she can afford! 8 ) Post Reply
shepherdess View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 08:32 PM that wasn't very nice mr. two Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 08:41 PM Love2cook, Sounds like you have a lot to offer a potential mate. You love to cook and there are plenty of women who love to eat!:eat: :laugh: Trust God and He will send the right one your way. God Bless You. Deborah Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 05:04 AM That wouldn't matter to me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 01:11 PM Love2Cook63, please do not be disheartened; a Godly woman will love you for your heart not what you own or what you have in the bank. The culture we live in is too caught up with reputation and status, it's all superficial and all of it is gone once we give up the ghost. Man may look towards the outward appearance but God looks to the heart. Jeremiah 29:11 states that God has plans for you (even both of you) to prosper. When more folks rely on Him and less on the world of decay that we live in, blessings can be abundant. A Godly woman will root you on rather than beat you down if you're disabled. Many blessings in Christ, amen! Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 02:25 PM Do'nt you worry brother! A TRUE GENIUNE WOMAN OF GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART,NOT the outer problems & challenges in life!:glow::hearts: Btw,you did'nt had to include the "disability check" in your post,that would bring you olny the WRONG TYPE OF WOMAN who CHASES MEN for MONEY!:stop::laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 06:02 PM @ Love, the fact that you still try and help around the house, despite your disability shows you are not a deadbeat. Yes, there will be some women who will not want a husband with a disability. But at the same time, there are just as many who do not see it as a problem. Trust God to bring the woman He has for you. @ Two, somehow I cannot see you as a moocher. Post Reply
View Profile History	Concerning disability Posted : 2 Jan, 2011 10:32 PM Thank you everyone for your opionions they have meant a lot to me, and give me hope that someone will in time want to be friends with me and find out I do have a lot to offer, and that I also am sensitive with a big heart. PS if any of you happen to travel trrough MO give me a shout out, I might just let you try my cooking :eat: Dinner bells ringing and I have the hot sauce lol :toomuch: :waving: Post Reply