Author	Thread: What is with everyone?
Admin	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 03:28 AM I'm just a little bit disconcerted with this site. I've sent many PMs to several ladies on here without so much as a hello. What is the problem; or is it just me? Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 04:42 AM There are a lot of "dead" profiles on this site. There isn't an obvious "delete account" button, or people just don't bother to come back and close the account. Basically, from what I am able to figure out, when you do a search for people, the results are sorted by those who were most recently on the site. If you are messaging people way down the list, odds are they haven't been on this site in a while. Of course if they are reading the message and not responding, well, that's something different. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 08:40 AM Sadly, that is very common for both girls and guys on this site. A couple of things you can try when you send a message: be sure to make it unique enough to stand out from the other messages she might get, and make sure that it "requires" an answer...ask a question, or say that you'll be looking for her reply. I'm far more tempted to answer a message that fits that description. If someone just says "Hi, you have a nice profile", I feel at a loss for what to say, and am more tempted to not send a response. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:12 AM There was an article I read in a magazine were the writer created an online account and helped manage it for his kids very attractive nanny. Reading it, it helped make a lot of sense of why women respond or don't respond the way they do and what they deal with and go through while trying to get what they want, which most of the time is what we want, a nice reliable person we enjoy being around. The article was in Esquire, but I don't remember the name. Something like My Time As A Hot Woman or something like that. I'd say really try to see it from their point of view and perspective and go from there. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 03:48 PM Thanks bcpianogal, I don't think I've tried that yet. I'll give it a shot. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 03:51 PM And Cobbler I am aware of the accounts and how active they are. Not too hard to figure that one out, but thanks anyway. And a side note, you can delete your account by going to "Help/FAQs" Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 08:03 PM I set up an account on here one time for my 24-year old, hot, super-sweet roommate. I might get up 3 views on any given day. She, however, would get 30+ views a day. It would be impossible for her to respond to all of them, and none really impressed her enough to respond to. But she's someone who has guys hitting on her constantly. Now, I have some tips for getting responses: Don't just say "Hi", always ask how are you, or something like that. As quickly as possible, bring up something in her profile, so she knows that you actually read it. Make sure your pic is nice. Even if guy isn't the hottest guy in the world, he should look nice in the pic. Make sure you're looking into the camera and smiling. It makes you look like someone a girl could have a conversation with. And have a pic that's close enough that the girls can actually see you. If you really love Jesus, let her know right off the bat. If she really loves Jesus, that will be the most attractive thing about you. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 08:07 PM Oh yeah, and one more thing. Most of the young women I've met, nope....not most...All of the young women I've met don't like men who are a lot older than them. Sorry, I know that's harsh, but true. I know there are some young women out there who are attracted to older men, I just don't know any. So if a guy is older, he has to face reality that he might need to reach out to someone older than he thinks he wants. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:21 PM Some people just don't want to reply. Some people just are not able to reply due to some reasons eg force majeur, internet problem, etc. Some people have no time to reply. Some people just forget that they haven't replied. And the list goes on.. Just keep positive thinking, and no, it's not you =) Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 10:19 PM I think that the men are partially to blame for this. They send out way too many messages. Most women are absolutely SWAMPED with messages and winks, and it's hard for them to respond to everyone. I really wish that men would relax with all the messages. It would make the dating process that much easier. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is with everyone? Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 08:34 AM Rainbow, 7mm instead of a shotgun....hmmm...interesting Post Reply

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