Author	Thread: What does this mean?
Admin	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 04:51 PM Ok, so me and this girl on here who I'm really into have been talking for like a month now. We really feel a connection and we both told each other we love each other. Now for some reason she's telling me she's not ready for a relationship and that she only wants to be friends. What does this mean? Does it mean she's not interested or does it mean I should give her some time to come around? Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:32 PM It means that she is dealing with some stuff with in her self, or it can mean she really isnt telling you the truth about her feelings. I am not sure what to say on this, sense I have not talked to her or I dont know how she is acting around you. However, most woman that are not secure about them selves are normally wishy washy about their feelings. She is going threw something and as hard as it is to say, you have to let go and let GOD. If it is what God has plan for the both of you, then the door will open. I guess my suggestion is to ask the Lord if she is the one you are to be with and if you dont hear nothing, then trying fasting and praying. Dont let your heart talk to you, let the Holy Spirit talk to you. I know that threw Jesus Christ, all things are possible. hope that helped? God bless..xx Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:36 PM The best way to know what it means is to ask her! Post Reply
Wednez View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:44 PM Exactly, Pixy. As much as we'd like to help, none of us are this girl and can made at best guesses as to what she's thinking. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:55 PM Let me just also add here that if she is someone you end up being in a relationship with, now is the time to begin those building blocks of good communication. This includes asking her questions directly, rather than trying to guess. And, this includes her being able to open up and communicate to you what she's thinking/feeling. If you don't want to end up in a marriage where you and your wife don't know how to talk to each other and don't understand each other, then you need to lay the groundwork for that now =) Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:25 PM I'm guessing it means that she found someone else. Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:29 PM A men Pixie...Communication is a big factor in any kind of relationship. I so agree gurl.xx Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:30 PM CoolSouthernNights86 God bless you brother.xx Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 09:09 PM It might mean that she feels like things are moving way too fast and it's freaking her out. I mean, you aren't even officially dating, likely haven't met, and you've already told her that you love her? That's ridiculously fast. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 11:31 PM @cool keep it simple it means ; she thinks she just wants to be friends and the best way for you both to find out if that is true is to........... just be friends. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Nov, 2010 08:40 AM hello coolsouthernnights, I would have to agree with tulip with how fast things are moving and what is being said. If I recall right, you have been in this situation before on here. I think you need to examine yourself before you get in such situations and quit throwing the love word around as easy as a hello. That also works vice versa, if you have a girl saying she loves you on here, run as fast as possible the other way. Post Reply

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