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Admin	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:36 AM What made you fall OUT of love with your last love? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:53 AM Well, we weren't really in love, but the whole emotional cheating/breaking up thing on her part really put a damper on our relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:27 AM Saying gud bye even before hearing my explanation (for the third time). Then after I explained the situation, he wanted to be back together again. I already had given two chances for him and already told him that the next time he said another gud bye, that would be the last gud bye. Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 09:36 AM What made you fall OUT of love with your last love? Awwhhh...Trick Question ???...:rolleyes:... I truly believe Love is not a Feeling�it is an outward action that embodies many emotions towards another. Whether it is a fellow person or animal. Since I don�t have a lot of dating experience I can only base this on my past marriage...When only one partner ( myself ) is willing to go to the ends of the earth ( marriage & church counseling ) to resolve & rectify any & all problems & dis-ease, forgive & move forward It becomes a one sided Marriage/Relationship�I did not Fall Out of Love�I had NOTHING more to Give�I will always Love my Ex- husband. I just don�t like him very much & I still pray for him�as I should�xo Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 11:43 AM I think that we need to differentiate between the Love that we feel in the begining and the Love that we eventually have. The Love we feel at the start of a relationship is that Euphoric...almost "drug like" sense of being. It is a Love fueled by chemicals that our brain is literally pumping out that gives us a Physical High. This state lasts anywhere from 6 months to 2 years. Then comes the Real Love. Suddenly we start to see all of the little foibles and shortcomings in the other person that we "overlooked" while in that Intoxicated State! Also we find that the other person no longer "does it for us" and we start to look for someone else to give us that "rush" or "high". So...which is it? Fall out of Love or just move to a more Mature ...Longer lasting...God Like Love (which some of us are not ready for)? Hmmm? Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 12:36 PM I always continue to have feelings of love in varying degrees for the women I've loved so deeply, but when THEY never feel the same deep feelings of love for you, or those feelings of love change for the other person toward YOU, all each of us can really do is to come to accept that and "let go and let God" (as we've discussed in another post thread) and let Him help your heart to move on and heal from the disappoinment and hurt that you felt in your heart from being "in love" in vain. Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 02:44 PM Good definition by Arch. I never stopped loving either of my husbands~just stopped being mentally abused. The "in love" feeling, passion does not stay the same, it matures into a choice over feelings and grows richer and deeper when both parties live in a "giving" state of mind, instead of taking and controlling. The most beautiful site in the world to me is an older couple that has been married for 50 years or longer and they love each other more than the day they met. That, my friends, is God's love designed for marriage. One child put it this way, "I know my daddy loves my mom cause he puts her toe nail polish on for her, when she is pregnant and can't bend that far or see her toes." :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Piggy back on Barefoots question...... Posted : 16 Nov, 2010 06:12 AM Being lied to. Repeatedly. Then, when confronted, more lies kept coming. Post Reply