Author	Thread: How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days
Admin	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 02:40 PM What things can a guy do early on to capture your heart? To make you swoon? To give you that warm, fuzzy feeling that he just might be the one? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 03:14 PM I'd sure like to know that one myself. LOL. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 05:35 PM In person, or online? In person, he can use my name when talking to me, look me in the eye (but not stare me down!), open the door for me, touch my arm lightly once or twice, ask me about my job and interests, tell me about your job and interests, talk about church and your faith but be realistic and don't make yourself out to be oh-so-holier than you really are, stay serious and don't joke too much, and don't tease me a lot right off. Online, flirt obviously (but not constantly), tease a tiny bit, make me laugh at a funny story about yourself, ask me how my day was (and then actually read what I type!), remember small details and don't ask the same questions over and over, and don't take forever (forever = more than 2-3 days) to answer emails. That said, I don't think I could ever fall in love with a guy in 10 days no matter how wonderful he was! But this would be a good start! Post Reply
paschen81 View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 05:47 PM Show sincere interest in the female and an unselfish desire to just be around her. Be able to laugh at yourself or any situation that calls for it. Be honest and open with her. And most important of all be yourself! Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 08:05 PM ditto @ bcpianogal.... Also, a man that , being we're online, using forums and messaging.... one that can give stimulus to my mind through writing, being this is what we "first" all do. The power of the pen is awesome, and often that is the thing that draws and strengthens the initial connection. Then after, next comes the call or the meeting.... if everything pans out just like or better than just the writing on the "wall" (messaging, etc...) then walla!! yep.... 10 days just might do it!! Love "could" be in the air! :dancingp: ~ GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 03:09 PM Hummm...interesting Pixy...I do not believe that a Gent could "make" me fall in love with him...Love to me is an outward Action to a person, not an Emotion, although there are Feelings from both sides pertainin to love...:rolleyes: Ifin the Gent be grounded and focused on the Lord Jesus* an showed sincere interest as BCGal shared...there might be cause for pause an reflection on ifin we be compatible or ifin I do Love him...but 10 days...that would be a miracle...:excited:...xo Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 05:53 PM oh wow, I couldnt even begin to answer this one. How about I get back to you when it happens???? ITS COMPLICATED :goofball: Everytime I think I know what I need, God completely proves me wrong. Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 11:52 AM super confident, cocky, but respectful of my oppions too. make me feel smart, teach me something I really want to know. have interest in the type of books, and music I like, be interested and knowledgable about the world around him. Find the same wonder in things that I do. note that I didn't mention looks! clean and non-smoking, is more important than good-looking! Post Reply
View Profile History	How to make a woman "fall in love" in 10 days Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 12:05 PM Interesting thoughts here, ladies. I appreciate you all responding =) I agree with River; it IS complicated. And Jude made a good point too: Love is an action. I'm not sure that I would say that love and falling in love are one in the same, though. But, I've never really been in love, so I don't suppose that I know too much about it! I did write a poem about it once -- describing what I thought it should feel like -- and described it as "ten thousand fireflies dancing in your veins." But anyway... In 10 days a lot can happen and emotional intimacy can flower really quickly, I think. Here are some of the things that really warm me heart and make me not want to hang up the phone even after 3+ hours of conversation: 1. When we talk about theology and God and the Bible and church and realize that we're on the same page with each other. 2. When we talk about marriage and family and realize that we think alike on things. 3. When he's tender with my heart. When he shows concern for it and just doesn't grab it and use it. 4. When he says that he'll pray for me. 5. When he expresses that he enjoys talking to me. 6. When we has a soothing voice that makes me feel safe and like I can tell him anything. 7. When he validates my feelings and actually gets how I feel and can relate to that. Post Reply