Author	Thread: You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 03:21 PM Per Jennie McCarthy -True or False? You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Post Reply
View Profile History	You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 03:48 PM yes we have to always be honest with ourselves and see our faults so we might improve Post Reply
View Profile History	You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 05:14 PM True. The ending of a relationship is rarely, if ever, just one person's fault. If you don't accept the responsibility for whatever part you played in the relationship's demise, then you're not able to change your ways. Sometimes I fly off the handle a little too easily. Sometimes I forget that I have a brain and let myself be fueled entirely by emotion. Sometimes I forget that other people have emotions too and don't extend the grace to them that I should. Sometimes I'm impatient and selfish and get angry when my needs aren't being met immediately. Sometimes I expect people to stand in the place of God in my life and heal things that aren't within man's capability of healing. Sometimes I expect that everybody should always know exactly what to say to me when I know very well that if someone stood before me with my story and my life--exactly where I've been at these past few weeks--that I wouldn't have the words to say. Sometimes I'm just angry at the world in general and I take this out on everyone. And a hundred other things............... Post Reply
View Profile History	You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 08:30 AM Right On A relationship is a healthy as the 2 involved..if it fails both had part in it. Post Reply
paschen81 View Profile History	You lose the lessons of your last relationship if you put the blame on the other person Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 10:11 PM I think that statement is true for the most part... however there are and will be exceptions to be made. My last relationship did not end because of anything I or my ex did or didn't do... but rather because he became sick and is confined to a bed in a nursing home now. I visit him at least ever other week on weekends but he's gone downhill so drastically in the last year it's really sad and hard for his entire family. I think they are all surprised that I haven't just "moved on". I'm not like that though and never will be. Post Reply