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Rabbit32 View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 01:38 AM How do women act towards a man they like but dont want to (for whatever reason)? Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 04:47 AM Women won't show a man they have feelings for him: 1.It's not what our moms taught us when we were little girs,that it's inappropriate....huh 2.We wanna keep it for ourselves than being hurt(if the man doesn't feel the same). Can't speak for everyone ...this is just my idea...but this made me thinking... Post Reply
View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 06:19 AM The only reason that stops me to dont want to be with a guy who I like is, there is no peace of God about me being together with that guy. That's the absolute unchangeable thing I would never tolerate. I could be very sure that I would overlook even characters, looks, his past etc (had proven stories for this). For me, other than peace of God is unchangeable (by that time, since sometimes God just wants us to wait on His perfect time - well this talk is another different topic) and others are changeable though sometimes it would take time and other resources. I believe every woman has her own reason. I gotta agree with Cmseeker, I'm a conservative woman and I believe in man takes the first action. Also women are emotional creature, we are afraid our feelings to be hurt (no one wants to be hurt tho). Every woman acts differently. And, based on my experiences n observations, every woman never shows those acts in the same pattern. Some would say it bluntly "I like u but I don't want to be with u bcoz bla bla bla", some would say implicitly, some would be silent, some would seem distant just suddenly she seem back off, and the list goes on. I'm sorry for not helping with those reactions lol but it's true, my suggestion is, you ask her directly and tell her that you are waiting for her answer. Well as u said in other post, doesn't matter what it is, the matter is how you say it, or if I may add in the right time and right place. There, my opinions =) hope that helps! Blessings. Post Reply
View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 07:12 AM How do women act towards a man they like but dont want to (for whatever reason)? Rabbit, I think I need some clarification of what you're asking. Do you mean 'like'...as a friend...but they're not interested in taking it any further than friendship? Or, do you mean they 'like'...as in they are attracted...but they don't think it would be a good idea to or are not sure the man wants to take the relationship further? And, what are the man's feelings in this scenario...is he interested in just friendship or a deeper relationship? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 07:53 AM .....how can you tell a women "likes you but doesn't want to"? Maybe she just doesn't like you? I'm just curious about the "signs" on this one. :peace::peace: Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 12:40 PM @God Handiwork it SEEMS that single Christian women don't want to be friends unless they're interested, but in order pursue a woman I need to get to know them, and for them to be really interested in me, they need to get to know me, which is a paradox. Especially when you are not trying to spur a womans heart, or awaken love, you just wanna be friends and maybe see who they are. @Mark I have had a woman treat me badly because she wanted to "act as she wanted to feel" or something along those lines, only to find she liked me even when I was married. A relationship ensued but a few red flags later and I reluctently withdrew from her. I knew she wasnt what was best. Before that, you would have thought she despised me. One female friend suggested it was because who I am in Christ can be intimidating...but I dont know. One female claims she is offstandish towards me because she cant figure me out, and that makes her feel insecure. But how do you figure someone out if you are never around them? Its almost as if women once they let somone in, can get them out even if they leave, or another way of putting it is once a woman gives her heart away, its difficult for her to get it back. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 12:52 PM For a woman to be intimidated by who a man is in Christ is ridiculous...to put it nicely :) A woman should not give her heart away unless it is to her husband or "to be" husband. If a man is trying to be in my life in any way, we will only be friends until something else occurs. I welcome friendships :) It doesnt seem right that a woman wont be your friend unless its leading to a relationship. Sounds like the women you are speaking of need their hearts healed and are scared to trust. Rabbit, you should ask her straight out "how do you feel about me?" if you dont ask, you usually wont know until it's to late. Post Reply
View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 06:00 PM Rabbit, you said "It SEEMS like single Christian women don't want to be friends unless they're interested" --> so all of your Christian single female friends are all interested in you eh? :purpleangel: Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 06:24 PM :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 06:33 PM I've been attracted to non Christian men. I treat them (act towards them) the same way I do everyone else - no more, no less. I have also been attracted to Christian men who were "off limits". Maybe they weren't ready for a relationship, maybe they were dating someone else --- whatever the reason. I limited my contact with them...... and treated them the same way I did everyone else. That method has worked well with me. Sounds like you have met some really mixed up ladies who didn't know themselves well enough to know what kind of guy they should have! Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	When women like a man they dont want to.. Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 07:32 PM @ Jesus loves, well the ones that I consider friends have been interested, or I have courted, but thats the point. Courtship always came first, there are those who arent close, because we went from nill to courting, dating or w/e. Post Reply

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