Author	Thread: To i.m or not that is the question
Admin	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 01:02 AM I just signed up here and was wondering. Is it better to i.m. or send an email. Ladies what are your thoughts , and guys what do yall do Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:19 AM The IM system here is pretty unreliable, so I say message. Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 06:48 AM I would have to also say, The old messege is always better. Gives the young women a chance to put some thought into what we are writing. Somtimes we dont know what to say. We need to have some time to look over a mans profile and then write back. Hope it helps ... God Bless Post Reply
View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 08:59 AM So guys what do you say when you message a women here. I've tried commenting on here profile but get a bunch of views but no messages and its so frustrating you know. Post Reply
View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 01:56 PM You could tell us what you would normally say and we could critique it for you =) You could respond to my profile publicly here and I can provide honest feedback. Seriously! Post Reply
View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 04:50 PM To me it doesn't matter. If, however, you viewed me first and/or sent me an email, and then a day or two later caught me on-line with an IM ---- well then - you would certainly get my attention. I have noticed the IM on this site is slow and seems to cut in and out. When I have had a long conversation with someone, I end up typing my replies in a Word doc (I'm a fast typist) and then copying and pasting those words into the IM window. It eliminates the delays and missed characters that way. Post Reply
View Profile History	To i.m or not that is the question Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 12:31 AM Ok I will do that Post Reply