Author	Thread: what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message?
livetheword View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 6 Jul, 2010 07:54 PM ok so.. ive been going thru profiles and finding many of u young ladys to be nice, intelegent , and with a love of the lord. so my question is: which gets ur attention more ? a wink or a polite message introduing myself and a simple " how u doing . u seem like a awsome girl " please let me know . and if u an also let me know how u respond to each of these ( with a wink do u just veiw the page and see if he has the courage to send a message or do u send a wink back or do u send a message to him if ur intrestid?) thanks :waving: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 6 Jul, 2010 08:40 PM For the most part, I ignore winks. Every once in a while, I'll respond with a message, but not usually...if I guy is really interested, he can take the time to write a real message. As for the message, it shouldn't be too long (that would scare me!), it should point out something that the guy found interesting about my profile, it should include something that he and I have in common, and he should tell me something about himself that isn't in his profile. I always respond to messages, even if it's with the "I don't think we would make a good match" reply. Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 6 Jul, 2010 08:50 PM I don't ignore winks, but their meaning is up for interpretation. Some send me a wink with a msge. I've also been sent winks and when I write saying thx, I never hear from them. From what I see from what many do, a message is your best bet. Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 06:38 AM I agree with Babygirl. If you are really interested --- a message is best. The men that have gotten the most attention from me are the men who have sent me a wink AND follow it up with a message. Post Reply
LincolnAdams View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 10:53 AM ***so my question is: which gets ur attention more ?*** For women, that's easy: money! :winksmile: Make sure your profile indicates that you have a high paying job and watch the the favorite count skyrocket. Include pictures of your car too if you got a sweet ride. Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 10:57 AM I suppose that's just as good as anything else :laugh: Post Reply
LincolnAdams View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 01:14 PM I didn't mention it in my profile, but I drive a fully loaded SUV. I'm just sayin'. :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 01:35 PM @ Lincoln, i'm sure your comments describe truthfully some females. My question is what did you do to attract such a bunch and what did you learn after your encounters that might be useful in instructing other men in escaping/handling such situations? Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 01:47 PM @ livetheword, write a message. Write without expectations of a response, but only with the assurance that God knows what is best. Be sure to say what is on your mind and especially in relation to her profile. When you hit the send button, commit it to God and don't look back. Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 02:10 PM Well...a wink jus lets me know they be thinkin im purty or maybe liked my profile an got a laugh...an a message...well...it shows they related ta somethin an are reachin out for connection...an a wink followed by a message shows they are possibly interested in gettin ta know me...Its all good...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 03:27 PM I have to say a message means more. I personally find strong men attractive and if I guy is too scared to send a message online then odds are he's the kind that wouldn't walk up and say "hi" in person, either. As for all that drivel about money and cars, let me just say that few things shout "cheeseball" louder than a guy with a picture of his car or a profile that expounds on his great wealth. Post Reply

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