Author	Thread: How to treat a Lady
Admin	How to treat a Lady Posted : 19 May, 2010 03:21 PM How does a lady expect to get treated? Well, I have assumed that most ladies want to be treated with respect.Their opinions mean something. As christian men should we protect our sisters reputation? I have a habit of going after guys who mistreat women. That is a character trait of mine.Some do not like it, while others do. I do not feel it is right to sit on the sidelines and talk about eating popcorn while a ladies reputation is drug through the mud. I feel the guy has a responsibilty to treat the woman like a lady and respect. If a break up occurs let her leave in peace.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 19 May, 2010 05:56 PM What's up Dennis? I think it's commendable that you feel strongly about men who are abusive and that you feel the need to 'go after them'. As I'm sure you know, you only can do so much since you are not in law enforcement nor is being a vigilante lawful or effective (Zorro and nem :laugh:) The lady in question did not say anything on her behalf on the post. I imagine she turned him in (I would have and I did, you were not the only one). Since it is established that you can not do anything other than verbally 'put them in their place', what else can you do, but pray? I assume that the popcorn comment was your subtle way of chastising everyone for joking while your friend (or a lady) was being as you say, 'drug through the mud'. I did comment about popcorn, but it was after I private messaged him as an attempt to reason with him and let him know that he was on his way to being banned. He continued to post his craziness and at that point, I was like, it's just a matter of time before he was gone. I'm sure PY is fine. Also, where your passion is, your ministry is usually not far off. Maybe you should be mentoring boys who may have unresolved anger and other issues before they come of age to abuse anyone. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 19 May, 2010 08:58 PM "I do not feel it is right to sit on the sidelines and talk about eating popcorn while a ladies reputation is drug through the mud." we all have our cross to bare... whether he spouted any truth i know not. i could care less actually he seemed mentally disturbed from the get go. i can't waste precious brain cells getting worked up over him. keep fighting the good fight dennis:peace: Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 19 May, 2010 08:58 PM Hey dgr.... cuddos! :applause: Glad YOU know how a woman ought to be treated, and thanks for stating your stance for us!! :peace: ~ GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 19 May, 2010 10:29 PM Dennis- Thanks for standing up for me. To sort of address what you ladies have said... There were a couple of reasons that I didn't respond to UncleWayne's postings. The first is that I didn't want it to show up on my "history" or on the most recent 5 posts I commented on. And I didn't have much confidence that the threads would get removed because I've reported stuff before (private messages) without any results... So, I just really didn't want to link up my profile to either of the threads. The other reason is that I really didn't want to engage in a one-on-one conversation with UncleWayne. I felt that ignoring him was an appropriate strategy. Based on what he said, I believe that he is the same person as this guy who was harassing me on this Facebook group a couple of months back, after I turned down his advances. He said some very malicious and explicit things at that time. I'm not sure how he found me (or in InHisHonour) here, but I'm pretty sure it's him. Unless he shows some repentance, I don't believe that the two of us can have a productive, God-glorifying conversation. And just to reiterate what InHisHonor said on one of the deleted threads... The two of us met on Facebook a few months back. And we are friends and we do talk regularly. Anything beyond that that UncleWayne said about our friendship (or my purity) is based on speculation, not fact. So, I would very much appreciate it if no one calls my integrity or purity into question in this forum. If anyone feels the need for more specifics regarding that, feel free to message me and we can have a discussion about it POSSIBLY. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 20 May, 2010 11:14 AM I dont think it's appropriate to discuss this at all. It's none of our business, it's between you and God. We all come here to take a breather from life and see what everyone else is up to. I see what your trying to do and it's appreciated but not necessary in my opinion. Let's just move forward. Riveroflife Post Reply
View Profile History	How to treat a Lady Posted : 20 May, 2010 03:29 PM he's like one of those guys who try talking to you in the streets, and curse at you when you ignore them... slightly retarded :ROFL: no worries, only a man who is attempting to contact you should have any legitimate grounds to ask any questions imo *shrugs* Post Reply