Author	Thread: Responses
Admin	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 12:27 PM what's a question a girl will actually respond to? it seems like all the ones i approach don't want to talk about anything or give me a chance. Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 12:55 PM Remp, It's not really the question, it's the woman. Maybe the other ladies can help by being more specific. For instance, I answer any and all emails no matter what is asked or said. But I'm also not afraid to say, let's just be cool because I don't think we have enough in common to pursue a relationship etc...Some women can't do that so they choose not to answer at all. Some people are just rude. Others because there is so much choice here, pick and choose who they speak to. Many don't respond because they don't want the person to think they are interested. Awesome thing is, as you pray and depend on God to send you the woman who will be your wife, you know that whatever question you ask her, she WILL respond. :peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 01:01 PM most helpful. thanks 1babygirl Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 01:52 PM I agree with Babygirl. It depends on the woman. I respond to all emails, even if I have to say, "Thanks, but I don't think we are compatible because........... (fill in the dots)". I've had great questions that start conversations, and dumb (sorry, its true) questions. I always respond because (here comes the Sunday School teacher) ---- I follow the Golden Rule. I treat others the way I like to be treated. Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 02:24 PM :glow: no shortage of Sunday school teachers in this world that's for sure. 'Do unto others...' how have people still not caught onto this? Thanks godslamb Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 02:38 PM I respond too...I dont want it done to me (although it has) and I know how it feels, it's rejection. The girl could be missing out on the best friend she could ever have if there is not an attraction, but it's her loss Remp! why dont you just say, "Hey I enjoyed reading your profile, wouild you like to chat sometime?" that way it's letting her know your interested without being agressive but leaving the ball in her court :) Bless you, Riveroflife Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 02:59 PM I wish I could help you with some of my own experience, but I've only messaged three girls on here. One messaged me back, one didn't, and one has yet to read my message. The only thing I can suggest is make sure you're different and original. One or two lines, like, "Hey I liked your profile. Let's get to know each other." or something isn't going to make you stand out. Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 03:12 PM yep it's true. i always try and come up with something that will stand out in the title and the message, but not too far out. make it interesting and pertinant to their profile, etc. this kinda ties in to the topic you started on why guys move so slow in that there are so many counter-intuitive things you have todo to get the girl you want to want you (how to be *insert good quality here* but not too *insert good quality here*. the hungry dog doesn't get fed. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 03:25 PM I try to make it original, but to no avail. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 03:30 PM If you have a problem getting your messages read initially, try adding a little mystery to your subjects. "You sound like..." and then completing the sentence in the body of the message with, "You could be a really cool girl to get to know" or something is more likely to hook a girl since she wants to know what she sounds like. The same concept can be applied to different opening subjects if you don't like the sound of that one. Post Reply
View Profile History	Responses Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:19 PM godslamb: my bad! i typed the opposite of what i meant to say about the shortage of sunday school teachers. that was supposed to be a compliment. Post Reply

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