Author	Thread: HELP - Profile Tips!!!
Admin	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 08:23 AM yo girls whats up? ;) Ok, I want to ask the ladies to help me out here. Is my profile good or no? Should I add new pics? Take off current ones? Is my information or my About me section too informative/not informative enough. I don't seem to get too many hits and was just wanting some pointers on what I got going on that's funkin things up. I built my profile around just puttin out there whats real, diversity of pictures so you can grasp an idea of my character. I want people to see me for who I am. Is that also a bad approach? ;) Gimme tips girls! What am I doing wrong? Cause right now I am just convinced I am too good looking and are intimidating you ladies away (I kid, I kid) no seriously let me know thanks! -Josiah Post Reply
View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:21 AM dear sub, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 09:53 AM Honestly, your profile seems fine to me. There are things on there that would probably keep me from contacting you, but those are personal preference type things. Keep in mind that these things take time. Some people stay on these sites for a very long time and never meet anyone special. I've been on this site since mid-August, and while I've made friends, I've not met anyone in person and I've not met anyone to date. On the other hand, I joined another free site in early December, and on Jan.1 I started communicating with a great guy...we are now dating and things are going great! Also, don't just sit back and wait for girls to contact you. You need to do some work too. Send out messages (not just winks, though winks in conjunction with messages might be very effective) to every girl who interests you. Don't be offended if a lot of people don't respond. That's fairly common. And don't send numerous emails to the same person if she doesn't reply or sends a "not a good match" reply...she will likely report you for scamming or stalking! Hope this helps! bcpianogal Post Reply
View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 11:27 AM thanks ;) yeah right now I am just trying to have fun with it. Meet as many as possible. Hopefully god has her lined up for me, he has been smacking me around like a dirty rug lately so I know hes pushing me towards her. Just which one is her? *raises hands to sky in frustration*oh dear lord! Why are you mute??!? lol I think us christians should start a forum for god to read, tell him we want little pointin down finger icons to appear over the heads to our soul mates. I think us christians should totally get that bonus over non-christians ;) haha. well thanks for your replies! Post Reply
View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 04:09 PM don't see anything wrong with your profile, but that's only because i clicked it! most women may over look it because the picture is not really captivating. the one of you in the brown hat and shirt was not bad how ever :glow: i think the secret is a outstanding profile pic, the one you have may very well be fading into the background of other pics out there. nyanda :purpleangel: Post Reply
View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 07:02 PM Hey Josiah: I have two suggestions for you. Your main picture is a good one --- but a little dark. It may not be a good picture to use to initially attract interest. You have a picture of you dressed as that guy from Clockwork Orange -- is that correct? At any rate, it looks just like that guy. If I was your age and saw that -- I would not be attracted to you. That is not a good movie to be portraying in your profile. Other than those two things -- you could always edit and adjust your text description as time goes by, but I think it is fine the way it it. Good luck in your search! Post Reply
View Profile History	HELP - Profile Tips!!! Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:25 AM Friend, I add new pics every other month.I found what works. Things to try. Picture of a pet. In past pics I have used my holding a lion cub, feeding bear cubs, these pics got a great response from the ladies.action pics do also. Also, getting in the forums to get known.It took a few months but that also helped me.Since then I put any age for my contact. So, any one can write me. I live a hour from Toledo and volunteer at a museum called Auglaize Village. If you change your age range I can give you details. When events take place and maybe we can exchange ideas.I run the model train museum there.Dennis Post Reply