Author	Thread: Qualities of a married man
Admin	Qualities of a married man Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 08:16 PM We're some Christian polygynists from Saskatchewan (where we have legal liberty) and we wanted to take an opportunity to ask women in general some things to see weather things had really changed that much. You see, we've studied enough history to see the times Christians practiced polygamy pre 1800 (because post 1800 Mormonism hits the scene and makes a mess of the topic), and in the cases where they did the women became the prime advocates of it. Much of their reason boiled down to married men having an already proven quality (weather good or bad), that and the fact that they have the benefit of a larger family without having to have all the children themselves. Even now, when the concept polygamy is so shunned, I've seen (and my wife has picked up on) the attractiveness of a married man to Christan women who value family {That or its just my own attractiveness, anyway}. So I ask in general, is it attractive when you can clearly see that a man is a loving husband, attentive father, and skilled leader by the evidence in his own family? Even if you don't like polygamy would the ability to see first hand the way a man acts as a husband be a perk? And secondarily, if you where interested in such a relationship would you see the kids as a plus or as baggage? Obviously we are only looking for women who see it as a plus, but I am curious to know how Christian woman perceive a guy with kids. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 14 Mar, 2010 09:17 PM What's wrong with your current wife? Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 07:08 AM Very few things,she is fantastic. That's neither topical nor do you fit the category of people I'm addressing. If you want to discuss polygamy in general create a different topic and send me a link, otherwise please don't spam. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 07:40 AM If nothing's wrong with your current wife, then why look for another one? A woman with a healthy self-esteem would not tolerate that, and if you don't think so, then how would you feel if your wife went looking for another husband? oops. I find it funny that you come here talking about polygamy and being of the mindset that it's healthy because 'this time it's different from the mormons' and expect to be taken seriously and for us to treat it as perfectly normal or reasonable, and be respectful of this foolishness. Talk about barking up the wrong tree. If you want to play blind man, that's on you, but don't start whining when we don't play along with your stupid delusion. How 'bout you make a decision, to be loyal, responsible, respectful and loving to the woman you married, otherwise, why even bother with the pretext of marriage and just shack up. In other words why don't YOU display those qualities of a good husband? Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 08:44 AM I'm redirecting you to the thread here http://www.christiandatingforfree.com/forum/forum_new_topic_message.php?forum_id=14 since you decided to continue spamming and not create another topic as requested. I'll re-post my initial query to refresh the topic. "We're some Christian polygynists from Saskatchewan (where we have legal liberty) and we wanted to take an opportunity to ask women in general some things to see weather things had really changed that much. You see, we've studied enough history to see the times Christians practiced polygamy pre 1800 (because post 1800 Mormonism hits the scene and makes a mess of the topic), and in the cases where they did the women became the prime advocates of it. Much of their reason boiled down to married men having an already proven quality (weather good or bad), that and the fact that they have the benefit of a larger family without having to have all the children themselves. Even now, when the concept polygamy is so shunned, I've seen (and my wife has picked up on) the attractiveness of a married man to Christan women who value family {That or its just my own attractiveness, anyway}. So I ask in general, is it attractive when you can clearly see that a man is a loving husband, attentive father, and skilled leader by the evidence in his own family? Even if you don't like polygamy would the ability to see first hand the way a man acts as a husband be a perk? And secondarily, if you where interested in such a relationship would you see the kids as a plus or as baggage? Obviously we are only looking for women who see it as a plus, but I am curious to know how Christian woman perceive a guy with kids. " Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 09:22 AM Remp is not spamming. He is simply making a valid point that you are not willing to consider. I, for one, do NOT consider a married man more attractive for ANY reason. He is morally and legally off-limits. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 10:07 AM I just love CDFF!!! They are SO on top of things! Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 10:09 AM At least, I assume CDFF was behind the deletion. Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 10:39 AM dear folks, i agree , a married man or even a married man and his wife or just a married wife should not be on here looking for other women for him or them... ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 11:18 AM totally agree with cattle.. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Qualities of a married man Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 12:15 PM It amazes me that there are human beings that even accept this kind of lifestyle. And using biblical figures like Abraham or Jacob, etc. as an example does not make it right. I'd like to see a bible verse that condones it. Polygamy is wrong. God can still use people that do "wrong"....but that doesn't mean He condones the sin. Moses was a murderer. David was a murderer and an adulterer. Samson was a traitor and a fornicator. Anyway...polygamy turns "men" into ego-gods and women into "lesser beings" . It's not right. The God-approved method is "one man/one woman"...and I still say...unless you're looking for a housemaid or a babysitter purely for utility/slavery instead of a wife...then "finding another wife" involves adultery....in my opinion... :boxing::boxing: Post Reply

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