Author	Thread: Are looks important?
Admin	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 11:42 AM Hey ladies, do you consider looks to be especially important? I've noticed at other dating sites (both christian and secular) that being good looking or handsome is a must for a lot of women on those sites. I would definitely not consider myself good looking at all, and perhaps at a bit of a disadvantage on sites like these. And no, this is not a desparate plea for you to overlook the lack of attractiveness, if that is important to you. I'm not here for dates, just friendship. And yes, I realize I'm rambling and getting away from the question I began with.:goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 12:50 PM Well...I wouldnt say Especially important...my mama taught me ta not judge a book by its cover cuz whats inside is worth more than jus the covers...All those pages hold more than can meet the eye... Ya gotta admit that Men are Visual...they see, they like, they persue...Well...women are Visual to...some more than others...So I guess it all depends on the person an what they are all bout...Anywho...thats my 2 bits....an BTW ~ you be a fine lookin young man at 22yrs...ya gota long life ahead of ya...dont rush it...enjoy the moments an GOD's Blessins to ya...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 01:00 PM Thank you for the compliment. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 01:14 PM I suppose looks are somewhat important, especially if I think I might be willing to consider marriage to a guy...I mean, I really don't want to have to suppress the urge to vomit every time I look at him! But as long as he's not ugly to me, don't care what the world thinks of his looks. I'm more concerned with what's inside, not outside. Btw, you aren't bad looking. You might want to post a picture of yourself smiling, though! Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 01:34 PM I agree with BC - you are not ugly at all, but you do need to smile! Smiles are very attractive - they make you look happy and confident and fun! Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 03:23 PM Beauty to me is in the eye of the beholder. What someone thinks is goodlooking to one is not to another. I think age is another reason that is important 2. Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 05:24 PM dear kaynine, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:34 PM 'goodlooking' and 'attractive' are two completely different things. a goodlooking person does not have to be attractive and vice versa. but i think we can all agree that attraction is key...being goodlooking is not enough for me to want to get to know a person (says the girl with no picture lol) i must be attracted to them. nyanda p.s i used to have a pic, i just dont want to deal with match makin and all that stuff. friendly contact only plz Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 08:56 PM Nyanda I only want to know one thing if goodlooking dont have to be attractive then, what makes them attractive? lol jk.... I get more reaction out of helping myself be more attractive then not being attractive. Some was not born natural goodlooking as some got it naturally. But that still is based on my opinion based on the beauty by my own eyes of witness. I witnessed a few with natural beauty and heard mild complaint's of what they would like to change or improve in their looks. I thought that they really shouldnt have anything to feel unattractive about but it seem's we all can find something that makes us feel perfectily not so attractive. I still find that Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It s late and I am tired....good night... Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 08:23 PM Are looks especially important? No. Yes, they are the first attraction. Especially when you are scrolling through profiles and all you see is a little bitty picture. But the inner qualities of the man -- and how he loves God and treats me -- are truly more important and lasting than what he looks like. Post Reply
View Profile History	Are looks important? Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 08:24 PM lol Given. sleep well nyanda Post Reply

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