Author	Thread: Tough stuff
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 01:57 PM 1.What's the hardest thing you ladies have had to overcome in a relationship? 2.What's the "hardest" thing you've ever lost because of one. Ie:1. The guy didn't speak your language 2. Lost the house in a divorce Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 05:29 PM 1. the guy refused to talk on the phone, even after we had met and started dating - he would text and IM all day long, but not talk - it made me feel very unimportant thinking that I couldn't even call my boyfriend and talk to him simply because he didn't like talking on the phone! I'm glad it didn't work out 2. hmmm, not sure Post Reply
View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 07:21 PM I think the toughest part after my divorce was forgiving myself for letting things get out of hand. I beat myself up for not putting a stop to things when I had the chance. It took me a long time to realize that there is life after divorce and that there is ministry and He does use us... material things that were lost I didnt care about, it was my emotions that got beat up but God is in the business of restoration! Hallelujah! Although it is an on going process, I feel brand new on the inside! Post Reply
View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 08:06 PM Having met a man online who seemed wonderful. He gushed over me and told me all kinds of wonderful things....... but never met me. Despite lots of statements that he couldn't wait, really wanted to, was looking forward to it....... But yet something always came up, and we never met. Not sure about the second one. Probably some self-respect for myself. I can think of one relationship in particular when I was much younger that still makes me criinge. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 19 Feb, 2010 04:27 PM 1. The hardest thing I had to overcome after my divorce years ago was the ability to trust another man enough to let him get close to my heart. I was almost killed and stalked for awhile after seperating and even after the divorce. So it took a few years for me to begin to allow closeness again in a relationship. Sometimes that kind of drama can leave traumatic effects on the mind and marks on the spirit, at least it did for me. 2. The things I lost because of one... well after the divorce, I was introverted for awhile. I was always very extorverted and social before... which, thank GOD... I'm back! In my case, I allowed the spirit of fear into my life long ago, but thank GOD AGAIN!! I'm free from all that! ~GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	Tough stuff Posted : 19 Feb, 2010 06:22 PM dear grace, its good to hear you got it back lady.. ole cattle Post Reply