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Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 09:15 PM

Ok, us guys did it, now it's your turn:

share some insights as to what men do that you find endearing...

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Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 10:16 PM

So many different things come to mind.... :)

A "just because" text, phone call, note...

A smile from the eyes...

Helping me by doing a "man job" at my house...

Ordering my drink for me in a restaurant, because he knows my favorite...

Experiencing a true and real conversation that starts on one topic, but ends up rabbit trailing off to others...

Oh, there are SO many more!!

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Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 11:01 PM

holds my face in his hands when he kisses me.....

gives me a nickname that only he uses...

loves my kids....

makes me laugh until my head hurts and my eyes water...

is willing to do something silly - just because.

is not afraid to let me see his fears and his shortcomings

notes left around the house where I will find them later



Like Browneyed... there are so many more!

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 05:57 AM

Hmm...OK, here are a few, but as others have said, there are many more!

Showing tenderness and kindness when dealing with children.

Standing close to me when we are out as a way of showing his protection (and staking his claim!)

Jumping in and eagerly saying "together" when a waiter asks "is this together, or separate checks?"

Taking time to talk with me about little things that don't really matter.

Being willing to try a totally new activity when we go out just because I think it's fun.

Making sure he occasionally touches my arm or hand "on accident" but then almost looking afraid that he's going to scare me off...that's just cute!

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 06:03 AM

The intimate embrace he has



humble man that worships



(keeping his relationship with his God in heaven like he would with ours and others.



The difference (in the way) he honors you or treats you

around his family and friends. (anyone)



The way he smells and loves to look for me



would go the extra mile



keeping up with the relationship as if it is the 1st date



keeping the openess of communicating things out.



when he fails he gets back up and learns from his mistakes



he is a seeker and not a no it all (open not closed)

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 10:30 AM

When a guy actually ask you questions...like instead of saying tell me about yourself...he actually ask you what he wants to know...shows me he's really interested in knowing me and wants to talk.



I love it when a guy takes my hand and just holds it.



I like the random notes and the randomness in a relationship. My dad does this with my mom with random notes all over the house...sometimes he even writes a note on the mirror in soap or something for her to find when the mirror is steamed up.



I would love to get a surprise of flowers...but not roses...daisies...one is fine with me...



I love to be sung to.



I love it when a guy actually talks and is just himself. Too many times i encounter a guy that tries to hard to be nice and leaves everything up to the girl because he thinks its what she wants and thinks that its the right thing to do...when actually...we just want you to be you.



I like the little things more than the big things when it comes to relationships. I think just as long as you be you ...you will be just fine!

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 12:56 PM

I find it Endearing when while walkin an talkin He jus picks a Dandilion and offers it to me with a smile...

When He lets ya know that the lil things ya do for him he appreciates...

When He offers His hand or arm and says...Shall we ???...

When He offers to watch a YUKY chic flik with ya....

When He calls unexpectantly...and says...Did I tell ya I love ya today..???....xo

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 03:22 PM

Old fashioned manners...

Opening the door

Holding my chair

Laughing at the little things that go wrong in life rather than getting upset

A smile and a wink across the room

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 04:59 PM

... when he has that special name for me thats just for me and him. Makes my heart flutter! :goofball:



...when he's just ok with being with me, and we don't even have to talk about anything.



~ GraceMae

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 08:24 PM

Oh, there are a lot of things.

When he does..... man things. Like washing the car or mowing the lawn or taking the trash out.

When he is not afraid to get goofy and play with little kids

When he gives me little winks and smiles in a crowd to let me know how he cares

When he holds my hand or gently puts his arm on my shoulders

When he sits next to me in church

When he listens without trying to fix it

When he tries to fix whatever is bothering me

When he doesn't mind my silly nicknames and comes up with some of his own

...... and many more......

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Posted : 12 Feb, 2010 08:18 AM

When ya catch him peekin at ya an his cheeks get flushed...

When He comes home an finds ya curled up on the couch watchin TV wearin his flanel, and ya say... I was missin ya. And he jus smiles...

When he brings home the bacon...and says...Well...I brought home the bacon and I'd kindly like it if ya would fry it up fer me...with eggs an taters please...:eat:

When I ask fer help makin the bed an he starts a pillow fight....YIPPYYYYY...

Men do many things that are Endearing...Its up to us Women to let em know that we Appreciate them an the things they do for us an others... xoxo

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