Author	Thread: Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer
Admin	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 07:14 AM Why is it when I answer some of these men that view my profile and I write them back and never respond back and when they do write back about one or two times and I never hear from them and it seems that I have to take intitative to write them back and start a conversation. I don't feel it's right at all in the first place don't view someone's profile if you don't have the courteousty to write back or if must means there's no connection at all. I have been on this site since last year back in March of 2009 and I have not meet a good christian man I know there's no such thing as the right man. I feel like most of these guys just play games or either want to go to bed with you and I'am not that type of women who does that I want a serious relationship , no games but puts god first in their life and going to church together. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 08:24 AM I"m not sure what you are getting at. People view tons of profiles on here and we aren't writing every profile we view. We view them, and if there is anything that interests us, then we write. If a person is writing everybody they view, there is a term for that, desperate....... Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 09:06 AM dear darla, welcome to the forums.. to me the reason to look at a profile doesnt always mean one wants to know a person better, yet just looking is finding out if you may be interisted enuff to wanna write them or not.. also if someones writing on the forums i look at their profiles to find out where ttheir last post was so i can find it.. ole cattle Post Reply
Veggie View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 12:41 PM Darla, I don't know if the guys that you are referring to just viewed your profile or they actually contacted you. When a guy views our profile, it does not necessarily mean that they have further interest. Our pic may catch their eye so they peep our profile and may find something in our info that they do not like or cause them to know that we are not the women for whom they are looking. Frankly, I think that is a good thing, after all better now than later. When I am viewed by someone, I simply thank them for the review. It does not matter to me if they write back or not because they did not initiate the contact. I cannot be upset because they looked at my profile because I made it public and gave them the right to when I posted it. The problem could be as simple as the distance between us and them may be too great to go any further. When couples communicate here, most times the ultimate goal is to meet. Please don't take it so personally. I am sure they mean no ill will toward you. They are just following the structure of the site. You want the Christian man to contact you that will be "totally in to you" and believe me you will know it. Let the Christ in you show through in your profile and reflect in you contacts via chat and emails. If you don't get a response from a couple of emails over some time, because some people are just busy, do not contact them again because they just may not be interested. Just remain patient in Christ, and He will give you the desires of your heart :) Praying for your cause, Veggie Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 03:11 PM I have a mile radius in my head as how far will I travel to see a lady.That is about 200 miles.That is the normal miles for me. Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 06:58 PM dear veggie and dg, nice posts.. ole cattle Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 07:20 PM Darla... good responses from the rest. Veggie speaks truth. Me for example, when I see someone viewed me, I figure one of a few things, either they read something I posted, something they liked or disliked prompted them to look at my profile and see what I'm about. OR, they were carousing round the search engines and saw my "plate of food" and that made them look. I have had several people just reply back about my main profile pic alone. If a person has viewed me, and I don't see anything at all written in their profile, then I don't even bother writing them. On just a few occations I've browsed profiles myself, and if I read a "really" good profile of someone that appealed to me from reading about them, or touched my spirit, I might write a brief message to say that to them, nothing more.. just that. Sometimes I get a response, sometimes not. And I don't have that expectation either to receive one. The days and times are different it seems, people are here on these sites for any number of reasons. (Shouldn't be, but it is.) It is important too I believe that we take advantage of saying much as possible about who we , what we want through that venue (our profiles), so there is no misunderstanding for the reader looking at us. That gives them the opportunity to not waste our time, and us not waste theirs. If someone messages me, I usually always reply. It's usually brief, unless it requires more. Case by case I handle as they come. Anywho... that's my perspective plus a little more than you asked for I'm sure.. Hope I contributed and you got some new revelation from us all. ~ GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 08:08 PM thank You ! veggie for some good advice in not to contact them but let them contact me if they are interested or not but to take things slow and start out as friends and not to rush anything but thank them for viewing my profile. darla41 Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 08:10 PM Thank You! GracieMae for some advice darla41 Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 08:14 PM I agee with you dg! as to how far are you willing to travel to see a person if that person interest you on their profile . I know that plays a important part in some people profiles as well. darla41 Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi! Girls - this is for anyone to answer Posted : 7 Feb, 2010 12:22 AM Nice post, dg. Its about 250 miles for me, seeing as how that usually turns out to be 300-350 driving miles. I checked out most of the ladies near me and most of them werent what I was looking for. I also check alot of ladies profiles, but havent sent messages to very many. Post Reply

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