Author	Thread: Ethnicity
Admin	Ethnicity Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 04:02 PM I just had a question. Is it ever ok to ask a women if a person's ethnicity is a problem for them. If so how would you ask. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 04:27 PM Hi Brandon, I don't see why it shouldn't be okay to ask your question. You might ask what her thoughts are about interracial dating. God Bless! Jackie Post Reply
View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 06:32 PM Oh, of course it is ok. As for how to ask..... hmm.. Not sure. What about "Have you ever dated a (fill in your ethnic group here)?" Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 07:57 PM Brandon, I think it's ok if you feel the need to ask it. Someone asked me, and while I was surprised, (I'd never been asked before...), I felt the person was really being honest with me, and really wanted to know if that'd be an issue for me. He made me feel he was interested in me because he asked. The more I thought about it before replying, I thought well why not. And since then, I've had a very different perspective about that possibility. ~ GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 08:09 AM I don't think the issue has to be brought up in first contact message like the example you had in the other topic. You have pics up, so if they aren't into interracial dating, then I'm guessing they won't respond, and then you have your answer. Post Reply
Veggie View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 01:19 PM Hi Brandon. Please check what I posted on your other thread. Thanks, Veggie Post Reply
Veggie View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 01:22 PM We said almost the same thing, and I had not read your response. Will you agree with me that great minds think alike? :) Just kidding. Veggie Post Reply
Veggie View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 01:23 PM Brandon, that comment about great minds was meant for you. Veggie Post Reply
Veggie View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 01:25 PM LoonyK, that comment about great minds was meant for you not Brandon. I really need some sleep :) Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 7 Feb, 2010 10:42 AM I think it's perfectly ok to ask. I was asked recently and I was glad he brought it up because now he knows for sure that I'm totally ok with it. It also opened the door for us to talk about our ethnic backrgounds and what our family's think. It was a great conversation starter. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ethnicity Posted : 7 Feb, 2010 10:45 AM dear veggie, lol girl you needed some rest hehe. ole cattle Post Reply