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Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 03:21 AM

Not trying to stir up any bitterness or cynicism, but for your overall experience on here, what's the most frustrating thing?

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 10:14 AM

Hmm. Probably the most frustrating thing is that there are so few people in my area on here. And of those few people, there are even fewer that I find interesting. Of those interesting few, none responded to my winks and messages. That's why I went to another free site that's a lot larger...and found someone there!

Another frustrating thing is that some guys don't get the message that I'm not interested in them. I try to be as nice as possible about it, but it's tough to be nice to a guy who can't take a hint (or even a clear "no", in some cases). But that's not a unique problem to this site.

The best thing about this site: the forums. That's why I'm still here.

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 02:58 PM

Not bitter or a cynic -- the most frustrating for me is men my age not taking a first step.



And, not knowing how old a profile is. If I am interested in someone -- how can I tell if they are still active? What if they haven't logged in for a year? There is really no way to tell.



Still, there are lots of positives.

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 06:17 PM

Not trying to stir up any bitterness or cynicism, but for your overall experience on here, what's the most frustrating thing?







mmm well I haven't really had that much frustration to even mentiion yet but, I can say that time has always proved to me just because what occurs now really can change later ....lol



Do you want me to keep you informed? lol GivenLife

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2010 06:59 PM

Well.... I have experienced only one minorly frustrating thing. Sometimes I'll send someone a wink, and they'll wink back- which I take that as maybe they're interested in getting to know me, so I send them a message. Then I'll never hear back from them. Or sometimes someone will send me a wink, and if I find them potentially interesting I'll wink back- expecting that they will then send me a message, but then they don't. So I guess I just find it mildly frustrating when someone shows some kind of interest but then never acts on it. Other than that...I've talked to lots of really cool people on here, so overall I don't have any huge complaints.

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Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 06:55 PM

For me, I, not so much frustrated, but if we give a suggestion about technical enhancements for the site in the "Suggest New Forum Topics or Functions" , why someone from Administration doesn't send out a Message of acknowledgement about what we suggested... At least let all the members know they are aware of our concerns, consider it or not.



~ GraceMae

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