Author	Thread: how to use i.m
Admin	how to use i.m Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 09:27 PM just had a question about using i.m Is it better to send an email or an i.m when first meeting someone. Just curious Post Reply
View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 12:26 AM I think an e-mail conveys so much more information and allows you to express so much more and it shows that you care enough to make the effort to actually write something down. "instant" just isn't that romantic to me. Post Reply
View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 12:26 AM Sorry...once again I crashed the party! Post Reply
View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 08:19 AM I do not use IM's but will answer them.The ladies who IM me I have learned alot from.In a short time you can learn a lot. Post Reply
View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 07:30 PM I have experienced both. It doesn't matter to me which I get first. IM is sometimes fun since the responses are more immediate. Good luck! Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 08:12 PM Hey brandon.... I think I'd prefer an initial email. For me, more personal for starters. Then after we're comfortable and IM is suggested, sure IM might be stimulating. :goofball::glow: ~ GraceMae Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	how to use i.m Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 08:24 PM IMs are fun, but somehow I tend to take them less seriously. I often have the feeling that a guy was just scanning the list of online members and randomly picked me for a chat partner. If a guy is really interested, my advice to him is to send an email first. Or maybe a wink and then a follow-up email shortly after the wink. Once a friendly conversation has been established via email, IMs are a great way to get to know someone better. Post Reply