Author	Thread: What do yous usually write in a message to send?
Admin	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 09:03 AM This has been something that I have been struggling with. What do you write or include in a message on here? I dont want to tell her about myself because all these things would already be found in your profile, and I feel that I'm being redundant. I want to come up with something catchy in my tite instead of the same old "Hi, my names (insert name here)". I guess I dont really have a way with words if you want to put it that way. So my question is what should I include in my messages to women that will catch their attention? What do women look for when they read though their messages? Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 10:54 AM You could make a nice comment about something she wrote in her profile that u liked; clearly state your purpose of writing... But for the first time, try to keep it short & simple. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 02:49 PM I agree with you about writing more about yourself. I don't know how to respond when guys do that. "Uh - thanks - I can read your profile myself" Ask an open-ended question; one that will require more than a "yes" or "no" answer. Comment about something in her profile - however small it may be. Or comment if she's made an entries in the forum. Good luck! Post Reply
View Profile History	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 03:00 PM I like it when someone takes an interest in something I wrote in my profile. Or they tell me why my profile caught their eye. Complimenting doesnt hurt either...haha but most women like to be noticed because of what is on the inside, not so much the outside(well maybe I should speak for myself), but all women want to be valued and affirmed =) Hope that helps! Jennifer Post Reply
View Profile History	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 4 Jan, 2010 08:22 AM Since I am in my 40's I do ask the lady if she is much younger than her profile says she is.This hs got a good response on occasion.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	What do yous usually write in a message to send? Posted : 4 Jan, 2010 08:50 AM thanks everyone this really helps me out. I appreciate it. Post Reply