Author	Thread: Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy?
Admin	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 12 Dec, 2009 03:59 PM I know there are women out there who find guys to be attractive in more ways than just having an assertive ego or looking like the hulk. So my question to you out there who don't find those traits to be the most important; in your opinion, what's the most attractive trait about a guy? (If that's not too much of a personal question anyway. :goofball: ) And so no one's counted out, if you do go for the macho type, what's next on the Checklist of Attractiveness? ( I haven't browsed the forums much so I apologize if this is already a topic somewhere down the list ) Post Reply
View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 12 Dec, 2009 09:17 PM I am not attracted to someone "looking like The Hulk" because I think they spend wwaaaaaaaayyyyy too much time thinking of and spending time on themselves rather than others. Give me someone, rather, that has a little extra padding that is comforting to snuggle up to. Voice and eyes attract me. His level of spiritual commitment is also very attractive. Post Reply
Tarasye View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 13 Dec, 2009 05:11 AM Amen Sister, its in the eyes, and its not how they look, but how they look at you. When a man looks at you with genuine sincerity, and with joy and laughter and interest, now THAT'S attractive! I am also attracted to intelligence, especially intelligence in the Word. They Walk it, they Talk it, they Live it. THAT'S attractive. They have a caring Christian Spirit within them that lifts people up, and that lights up the room wherever they go! You can trust them because they are not counterfeit Christians that lie or deceive or adjust the Word to fit their convenience, but rather stand upon it and stand not in judgment of others, but in constant self examination of their own walk and how they might lift others up. Yes, my friend Ice, THAT is attractive, and I don't care if he is bald or over weight or even if he's all that tall, although, I like tall a lot, but I am 5'9" and taller yet in heels. I am also drawn to American men and not foreign men, for foreign men scare me. Maybe that is wrong, but in some countries wife burning is still legal. That is a true statement, but it basically means that cultural differences run deep and in many cultures women do not enjoy the freedoms we enjoy here in America. You can bring people to America, but it does not adjust their belief system, and they are not going to tell you they think women are a less form of life than a man until after the "I do's" are said. I find that rather frightening. I think women like to feel safe, and we want men to lead our houses as the Bible says they should. These are things I look for in a man I would consider joining my life to become one with. And THAT is what I find attractive. Tarasye Post Reply
View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 13 Dec, 2009 05:43 AM Speaking voice. Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 13 Dec, 2009 11:08 AM I don't want a guy looking like the hulk... I want a confident , forward guy who has a heart for Christ, and knows what he wants in life. In this case he will seem attractive enough in my eyes (period). I believe many women would seek similar qualities. In Him, Phoebe:glow: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 13 Dec, 2009 05:52 PM I don't want a guy who's super model material. (But neither do I want to feel nauseated every time I look at him because he's so ugly!) I just want an ordinary guy who tries to take care of himself (meaning cleanliness and health, mostly). I'll think he's awesome no matter what his appearance. Love is based on so much more that outward appearance, and looks will fade and change over time anyway. I don't know if that made any sense or not, but it's how I feel! Post Reply
cherished2 View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 13 Dec, 2009 06:29 PM I cant speak for all ladies, but I really go for a man that will make me feel appreciated and loved. Most of the time that is in the amount of time he is willing to spend talking to me and with me. A man that is founded in Faith and submits himself to God is a man that makes me feel safe - no matter how big his muscles are!! Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 14 Dec, 2009 12:46 PM I totally agree with Tarasye, especially when she says "its in the eyes, and its not how they look, but how they look at you. When a man looks at you with genuine sincerity, and with joy and laughter and interest, now THAT'S attractive!" When a guy gives you that "look" (not like he's checking you out!) but the look of adoration - there's something about that look that I just can't ignore - it draws me in like a magnet! As for physical appearance, I like a guy who is "soft but firm" (LOL!) Of course, I would definitely date a guy who doesn't quite fit that description as long as he displayed genuine godly character. Besides loving God wholeheartedly, I think the main character trait that attracts me is integrity - Be man of your word! If you say you're going to do something, do it! Or if you need to speak up about something and be completely honest, just do it! . . . well, that's my two cents :) Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 14 Dec, 2009 04:06 PM I agree with what y'all are saying about the eyes. That is one of the first things I notice about a guy when I meet him for the first time. I might not necessarily just notice the way he looks at ME, but also the way he makes eye contact (or not), the way he looks at other people, etc. After the eyes, I probably notice the voice, and whether or not it matches the expression I see in the eyes. Post Reply
View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 15 Dec, 2009 08:22 PM i do not care to date or marry an attractive man. I did that once when i was in high school and the other girls would literally fall over their feet and stumble looking at him. Now, after the divorce from a "cute" guy, i am no longer interested in repeating that. The reason is, now those other girls (now older) are stumbling over their feet -again, because they had attractive and he was a loser... i am hopeful, the next "un-attractive" guy will be grateful for me, as in considering the appearance factor. i want men stumbling over their feet because of me, not the other way around. So to the other part of question, i look to the man's confidence and does he want my input into the conversation. Oh, and i do prefer that he is healthy. Post Reply
View Profile History	Who all out there -doesn't- look for the super manly type of guy? Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 09:11 PM i haven't been married so you can judge what i say with a grain of salt but... its not fair to the guy if his wife is not physically attracted to him at all. If you're not "attracted" to him why would you marry him at all? if you're looking for a guy to wrap around your finger and who will worship the ground you walk on, you're walking into a disaster. Post Reply

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