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GraceMae View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 10 Dec, 2009 09:22 PM Ok ladies. Here we are. Supposedly Godly women, some of us still on the "milk" of the word, some of us on "meat" now. I have had the pleasure of being with you for a lilttle while now, and feel so totally comfortable sharing in this written form meduim. So here I go. Now, we all have expectations about being here on this site. We learn, grow and give input to one another through the FREE resources on this site to meet Christian men AND women friends, and be in the internet realm of fellowship with one another. Right? RIGHT! Well, be it me, in my advanced years of just living wish to express my heart with you. We expect, rather are in anticipation that some man will "see" us or "read" about us,befriend us, and make the first move and make contact with us. Right? RIGHT! Don't give up on that thought or possibility. Hold it, hold it, stay there!! See, in my opinion, when there is truely a Godly man ( I didn't say perfect), one that desires to walk rightly before God, he and God alone, not what others see..... but he and God alone, well... that kind of man is not scared to take a risk in approaching you. Let "that" man approach you. Oh, in the world of today, we're all encouraged to go after what we want, HOWEVER, there is a price to pay, when you work outside of God's order. When we do the pursuing, well, if he's a good man, good looking, got it going on, you best believe there's going to be some other women who see that in him too! You'll always be looking over your shoulder wondering and probably manipulating how to keep him when he turns his eye another way. The right alternative in my view.... men approach you, whatever they need to do in this meduim to get your attention, give them that right! Then, you don't have the worry of always having to look over your shoulder. If this is a good, Godly man, that's what you want. And if that's what he is... you'll never have to worry about running after him, he'll be yours. i don't care what it is.. just be patient, and wait. If the man is scared to approach you, wait. Men always know what they want, like and desire. They don't need any help. This is an internet dating site, BUT, same methods apply as if you are in person. (just my opinion). You know I used to be a Cosmopolitan woman before Christ in my younger years, and as we all know "anything" goes in that world. But ladies, that is not who we are in Christ today. I think this is a very good FREE site to get involved, experiment posting in forum boards, and on the live chats. Let nature take its course and have fun. Pay attention. Love you all for being here. I enjoy reading your reply posts across the site! Continue to share your hearts and your experiences! * gracemae :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 10 Dec, 2009 10:20 PM Thanks gracemae I feel the same way. I appreciate the man more when he is the man he says he is and actions is the key to understanding who some one really is with God. GivenLife Post Reply
SeekingTruelove View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 11 Dec, 2009 02:44 AM That is so true. All I can say is amen! I have a feeling a lot of the younger ladies needed to hear that! Post Reply
View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 11 Dec, 2009 04:01 AM dear seeking, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 11 Dec, 2009 06:26 AM Thanks, GraceMae. I'm one of the younger ones one here (if 26 is still considered young!), and I agree with what you said. Post Reply

View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 11 Dec, 2009 12:29 PM miss bcpianogal trust me... 26 is young! lol you also great understanding from what i have read of your contributions here, i admire that sis. miss GraceMae, great post! and i mean for all of us, not just the gals! we all need to conduct ourselves with love honor and respect toward one another regardless of what we seek being here (friends, marriage partner etc.) ... this site has been a life line for me, helps me very much to keep on track and enjoy so much the fellowship and discussion. this is a such a good place to learn, grow, and honor God in honoring one another! thanks GraceMae...Jim Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 11 Dec, 2009 09:55 PM We're all here single together jjarr. Why not learn and grow and walk things out together? Post Reply
provider78 View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 07:31 AM I think.. the opposite is TRUE ! When Issac sent out his servant to look for a woman for him it was the woman who intiated the 1st move by making conversation.. and then it was the man to put the woman to test. I think we should stop thinking culturally, and start thinking Godly. I know for myself and many guys... who are shy, they would prefer the opposite. Granted your intitled to your own opinion and it doesn't change things in the family of God. But if you want a man's opinion and not based on things that seem right, or cultural... well then you got it !! I know there have been many people who go to say hi.. and they in turn get a hi.. in return. (common sense) A men/ and women of God know what they want and go after it. don't let love pass you bye based on femenism & wordly ways. Blessings in Love -- Post Reply
View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 09:25 AM dear provider, welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Women wise up Posted : 24 Feb, 2011 05:11 PM Could not agree more with provider78. Extremely well said. Post Reply