Author	Thread: What's wrong with my profile?
Admin	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 07:29 AM Ok Ladies, Here's one for you all to decipher. For some reason, I only get viewed and messaged/winked at by women how are 40 + I personally don't think I look that old, but that's what I get. Also, Out of all the winks and messages I have sent... very few will actually view my profile, and of those..none contact me. Is there anything wrong with my profile, or the way I look? Any help is greatly appreciated. James Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 12:51 PM dear photo, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 08:44 PM Hey photoc4js, Couple things, just from reading your profile just now, I KNOW why women 40+ seem to contact you more... you've got it going on! What most older *mature* women want in a male friend or serious relationship is someone with your profile credentials. Take honor to that. Be complimented by it. Some younger women may not be able to appreciate the qualities you opened up about yourself, so take heart, and just continue to be you here. Befriend those people who are befriending you. You never know who they know! As far as viewing your profiles ... I suspect that maybe many are looking at you but have NO "Allow a member to see that I viewed their profile". I mean that is an option that we all have. So we may be looking at you and not sure yet we want you to know we're looking at you... strange but that's the way we observe and evaluate you. We as women want the man to initiate(usually, AND those that have *pure* motives), and in trying not to appear desperate here, are hopeful in waiting on you to make the first move. (A little weird... many may view this site as go for what you know, being assertive, aggressive... and on an on... ) For me, I may see a profile, and I see genuine-ness and something authentic about it that makes me feel good, like that's a person I want to know, yet not necessarily if it's a man, be attracted to him for a serious relationship outside of friendship, so there are two sides to building relationships here. Those we look at to be friends with (both men and women) and those we want a deeper relationship with (like dating/marraige). Both types require time conversing to know if either will last. For those that you wink or send a message to, well... keep going. Pray that God will bring nice women and men friends to you here that you can share with and still be transparent with without loosing who you are. Hope you are encouraged and enlightened at the same time. *GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 12:24 PM AMEN to that Gracie ............. btw thanks for shring that 'not looking at you' button or whatever it is called .... didn't know and um well, snot wish I had LOL. Will be looking for that button :laugh: Ok photo she's right ......... I may be checking out a profile but no matter what I ike about it there's no way on Gods green earth I am going to iniate!!!! So when you see someone has looked then don't b discouraged they didn't wink at you ........... wink at them or whatever it is you do. Be aggresive, women want a man to come to them and let them know. Women have enough to compete with we don't want to put ourselves in a position to be rejected and if we wink and they dont wink back um HURTFUL. So get out there and get ur gurl Hugz & Blessings Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 02:05 PM dear isiah, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 08:23 PM have no idea why. Gracie has excellent points to heed. Have a picture of you dressed up. Every man looks good in a tux. Yah, know what i mean...like everyone can dance to YMCA. Also, consider that there are not that many active people on this web site. so those you have contacted probably haven't been on the site for months or years. I wish CDFF had a "last active" date for profiles so we ALL would know. Good luck. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 7 Dec, 2009 08:00 AM nothing is worng with your profile i want to ask u a quston ok here it is if u meet the right girl on here and she said she doses not drive or have a car what do u think of that? Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 7 Dec, 2009 08:33 AM Msboop, There are many people that do not drive nor have cars. The right girl, is the right girl..regardless. Post Reply
rosepetals67 View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 04:50 AM There is nothing wrong with you or your profile James. God Bless and peace be with you on here. Post Reply
View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 02:24 PM :yay: Put in there that your a millionaire in the making. If it works for you, then maybe I will try it. I think it is just that there are tons of people on these dating sites and they all write to the same person. Who-ever-he is............to him I say, thank you. This freedom cost a bundle.....:goofball: Post Reply
rosepetals67 View Profile History	What's wrong with my profile? Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 10:34 PM Thank you James, I am flattered that you think so. Post Reply

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