Author	Thread: Ignoring your spouse
rbj66 View Profile History	Ignoring your spouse Posted : 20 May, 2025 05:31 AM Ladies, one of my peeves i guess and criteria is i hate to be ignored. I came out of a realtionship where my ex was pretty arrogant. As time went on she would get mad i never tell her stuff and say i never listen (in such a loving tone of course 😁) but that is to be expected if she was the same way. Now even on here i have had lengthy conversations where i had posed questions or looked for comments and they just started talking about something else so it seemed they just didn't read it or ignored what i wrote. And i mean heartfelt questions and comments. Is that a sign of arrogance? I just can't justify it anymore. Do you find this a common trait with men? Communication is so important. No way i can be in a realtionship where my wife only talks when she thinks it's important. We had so little dialogue and usually it is the woman that talks more. There were stretches of days when she wouldn't even talk to me. She talked when she wanted to and made sure she was heard 😬. I had a marriage where i was looking forward to coming home to her to where i didn't want to come home at all. My fault of course 🙄 Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Ignoring your spouse Posted : 21 May, 2025 11:19 AM I think a couple should give each other equal attention. Many men are good conversationalist! I like a Man that's not too quite they usually sneaky. I choose dates wisely my ex was a very nice outgoing Man . I know respect is a huge plus in marriage. Every Woman doesn't think alike though. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Ignoring your spouse Posted : 23 May, 2025 04:42 AM On site I had a few men that don't use Forums that are great conversationalist and they know how to talk to women. Distance is a factor but I'm looking forward to more. Many on CDFF aren't wasting time Bashing many Christians and insulting women on these forums. Like the abusers. People know they don't dating material. Need God's Deliverance. Few nice Younger guys left cause of badgering ignorance! Post Reply
freetobe View Profile History	Ignoring your spouse Posted : 26 May, 2025 07:41 PM I figure if he is acting like that he is not as interested as needed to make a go of it, he is shallow, he is self absorbed, a narcissist or he doesn't have good comprehension skills. I lose interest quickly if this is the case. Post Reply